well, i made it past the second date with paintball boy. believe it or not, not much to report. we had dinner plans, but he does photography - which i find interesting as he is very analytical. it shows in his work however - everything is technically perfest - but seems to be devoid of emotion. but, i suppose it's not for me to psychoanalyze (and it is a digression)....but, he had been shooting that afternoon so he was tired as well....anyway, i got to his house late and rather than go out for dinner - he cooked. we had dinner, (it's been awhile since i've hung out with a guy and actually enjoyed talking to him). he's really intelligent and not afraid to take a stand in a debate. which i completely dig - so we debated about various "things" and were silly about other things...so, debating, random silliness and then bed 
another thing which surprises me about him, he is not concerned with being technically correct and he's not afraid to explore or take the lead in bed - nor does he approach it with a clinical mission to "mkae me happy". while he does definitely make me smile - its in part because he seems to be completely uninhibited in bed . we really have amazing physical chemistry. i don't think either of us got enough sleep - but i didn't have to be anywhere on time today...all in all, a really nice second date....we talked briefly about hooking up friday - so we'll see what happens there....and - thankfully, he doesn't turn on the tv the minute he stops doing anything (like cooking or eating - seriously sexy when a man pays attention!) of course, this may just be second date manners....all in all, i dig hanging out with him.....had one moment of weirdness, i am not the type to stay over unless there is a reason (e.g. paintball) he had to work this morning and i did end up staying. rather scary domestic moment as he made coffee (for me - he doesn't drink it), woke me up to tell me he was leaving and then gave me the key to lock up when i left and the "goodbye i'm off to work kiss" 
. he said to just keep the key...
so, that's it....i am so fucking tired! and am off to take an afternoon nap (it's raining - perfect day for it)....
another thing which surprises me about him, he is not concerned with being technically correct and he's not afraid to explore or take the lead in bed - nor does he approach it with a clinical mission to "mkae me happy". while he does definitely make me smile - its in part because he seems to be completely uninhibited in bed . we really have amazing physical chemistry. i don't think either of us got enough sleep - but i didn't have to be anywhere on time today...all in all, a really nice second date....we talked briefly about hooking up friday - so we'll see what happens there....and - thankfully, he doesn't turn on the tv the minute he stops doing anything (like cooking or eating - seriously sexy when a man pays attention!) of course, this may just be second date manners....all in all, i dig hanging out with him.....had one moment of weirdness, i am not the type to stay over unless there is a reason (e.g. paintball) he had to work this morning and i did end up staying. rather scary domestic moment as he made coffee (for me - he doesn't drink it), woke me up to tell me he was leaving and then gave me the key to lock up when i left and the "goodbye i'm off to work kiss" . he said to just keep the key...
so, that's it....i am so fucking tired! and am off to take an afternoon nap (it's raining - perfect day for it)....
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Well, you'll just have to open up PBB's hidden depths... and if he hasn't got them you'll just have to corrupt and diversify him!! It could be fun!
I've known girls with whom I've been very vanilla at first because I do believe in that old chivalroous notion that its not right to push what you like on a woman, so perhaps gradually if you share what you like, he'll share too, or grow to like it!
(Not that this strategy has ever worked for me...)