Thanks @brujaja for tagging me!
A few things ya'll might not know about me:
1. Im incredibly shy. When i was little my parents were worried i wouldn't make friends because i was so quiet. They eventually put me in gymnastics to help me be a little more social and i ended up coaching gymnastics as my first job at 13 years old, meeting with parents about their child's progress and overall coaching the groups of kids for several hours a week, my mom to this day is still shocked at that level of change lol. Im still shy but i know when to "turn on" my social side for work.
2. I was married for 5 years. It feels like a lifetime ago. But i got married at 18 years old to a great guy who should have just been a friend. Lesson learned, i divorced in 2014 and have really tried to live as much life as possible since then! I think a big reason why I'm so independent now is because i spent a lot of those early adult years kind of stunted and stuck in my midwest family lifestyle.
3. I grew up on the lake and have always lived near water, my 2021 goal is to buy a home and ill sadly need to leave CA/the ocean to do that so you better believe ill have a pool and will spend loads of time there lol
4. I have a full time job working in tech. Most of my "vanilla" jobs have always been in some sort of tech role whether it be sales or support or training. Love being able to nerd out everyday.
5. In 2020 i started my work in the adult film industry -covid slowed down a lot of progress with that so its been slow going but i absolutely love it. The level of communication and consent and safety being such a priority is a new change for me compared to the "dating" scene in civilian life. Who knew?! Needless to say i think itll be a looooooong time before im dating again in the civilian world.
Would love to see what @luciahime and @zeira come up with too!
