a few days ago i got random messages calling me cunt twat and bitch. i wasnt really taking this seriously considering i though tthey had the wrong number. i didnt answer but asked who it was. this person seemed imature saying they were my worst night mare. and when i ddint answer it only kept going. i asked them if they were on drugs??? lol becaue my freind wants what this person is on lol. after a while it only got annoying.
get this........ so about 6 months ago i was asked out by a guy who seemed genuine and because i have been single for about a year and 3 months at that point i said y not. i ended up, after the first date made him aware that i wasnt into dating at the moment and dont feel the same way. so we becme friends and it was a few montsh before it was time to move to california so i was looking for a place to stay. he implied that he wanted me to stay at his place. i agreed. we began to have more of a bf gf relationship w out the sex. he quickly began talking about his ex who he was engaged to. told me she was psycho and would show up at the house. that she took all his paychecks and now hes in debt. took his car away. cheated on him. and left one day. he said that she texts him like a mad woman and had a restraining order against her. i began to see that he was constantly upset. and concerned for my safety i asked him if i should leave. he said no no. she supposedly got flowers from me saying to stay away from him. when he found out he quickly got upset. when she texted he would get upset. i told him if this is goin to be a problem i dont want to be involved.i even got fb messages that i didnt reply to saying "are you da one fucking ..." how imature that you cant even spell the. im not even used to being around stressfull people so it was enough for me to not like the environment. in the back of my mind i knew that they must still have a relationship because she casually texted him and he began to lie to me about random things. about his and her currently relationship. such as tlking to her saying that he didnt want to but i later found out he did. what i didnt under stand was if we were friends y would he lie about those things especially when im about to move. and if he was even in a relationship w this woman y was he cheating on her w me. i didnt like this... so quickly i cut all ties w him......and later found out that he was mad at me. i did not realize this for a while from not tlking to him. later i heard from him when i checked up on him after i moved he said he was depressed cause i moved so wasnt tlking to me.
but i knew these words from the text messages. and it was the words he would call his ex. so i texted him and asked him if he gave my number to his ex. he didnt answer. so the next morning i got an apology and she said yes it was his ex.
come to find out in the long run was that he was constantly making him self the victim. saying that she took all his checks. not true. and payed off her debt. not true. she actually paid his and now is in debt. the car was sold cause he couldnt pay for it and is now asking her to sign for a car. wat was sad was when i stayed there. he would never take my rent money but i payed for everything! when we went out and baught him gift cards! so that he couldnt return it for groceries and cloth. he said that he had a restraining order against her. not true. he made her out to be the sickest person ever and in the end he had done everything that he said hurt him. the whole time he told her that he wanted to b w her but needed space. shes still paying his bills. the way he tlked about her made me sick how she took advantage of him. she has been taking care of him for two years and he has been lieing to her and takeing advantage of her and making her out to be crazy. i was more mad for the girl then n e thing. wats worse is now we know the flowers that had my name on them and the facebook messages were him. she also says she received messages from me which i had no idea who she even was and had never seen her. how insanely imature is that. hes older then 30 and i k now this cause he lied about his age to me.
he said he only saw me a few times.....i lived w him. and when i tried to leave he wouldnt let me so i had to call the cops on him. the whole time i just thoguht he was really dramatic and accepted her attacks. i just left and never thought about it but the other day was the first day in 6 months that iv heard n e thing about him and i feel like im in twilight zone. he makes up lies in his head to justify the false problems that dont exist. he said one day he caught her cheating and she had braught a guy home w three of her girlfriends. the truth was that he stormed up thinking that she brought some one home and when he found out it was a mutual friend he just stormed out..... this guy is a mental trip.
get this........ so about 6 months ago i was asked out by a guy who seemed genuine and because i have been single for about a year and 3 months at that point i said y not. i ended up, after the first date made him aware that i wasnt into dating at the moment and dont feel the same way. so we becme friends and it was a few montsh before it was time to move to california so i was looking for a place to stay. he implied that he wanted me to stay at his place. i agreed. we began to have more of a bf gf relationship w out the sex. he quickly began talking about his ex who he was engaged to. told me she was psycho and would show up at the house. that she took all his paychecks and now hes in debt. took his car away. cheated on him. and left one day. he said that she texts him like a mad woman and had a restraining order against her. i began to see that he was constantly upset. and concerned for my safety i asked him if i should leave. he said no no. she supposedly got flowers from me saying to stay away from him. when he found out he quickly got upset. when she texted he would get upset. i told him if this is goin to be a problem i dont want to be involved.i even got fb messages that i didnt reply to saying "are you da one fucking ..." how imature that you cant even spell the. im not even used to being around stressfull people so it was enough for me to not like the environment. in the back of my mind i knew that they must still have a relationship because she casually texted him and he began to lie to me about random things. about his and her currently relationship. such as tlking to her saying that he didnt want to but i later found out he did. what i didnt under stand was if we were friends y would he lie about those things especially when im about to move. and if he was even in a relationship w this woman y was he cheating on her w me. i didnt like this... so quickly i cut all ties w him......and later found out that he was mad at me. i did not realize this for a while from not tlking to him. later i heard from him when i checked up on him after i moved he said he was depressed cause i moved so wasnt tlking to me.
but i knew these words from the text messages. and it was the words he would call his ex. so i texted him and asked him if he gave my number to his ex. he didnt answer. so the next morning i got an apology and she said yes it was his ex.
come to find out in the long run was that he was constantly making him self the victim. saying that she took all his checks. not true. and payed off her debt. not true. she actually paid his and now is in debt. the car was sold cause he couldnt pay for it and is now asking her to sign for a car. wat was sad was when i stayed there. he would never take my rent money but i payed for everything! when we went out and baught him gift cards! so that he couldnt return it for groceries and cloth. he said that he had a restraining order against her. not true. he made her out to be the sickest person ever and in the end he had done everything that he said hurt him. the whole time he told her that he wanted to b w her but needed space. shes still paying his bills. the way he tlked about her made me sick how she took advantage of him. she has been taking care of him for two years and he has been lieing to her and takeing advantage of her and making her out to be crazy. i was more mad for the girl then n e thing. wats worse is now we know the flowers that had my name on them and the facebook messages were him. she also says she received messages from me which i had no idea who she even was and had never seen her. how insanely imature is that. hes older then 30 and i k now this cause he lied about his age to me.
he said he only saw me a few times.....i lived w him. and when i tried to leave he wouldnt let me so i had to call the cops on him. the whole time i just thoguht he was really dramatic and accepted her attacks. i just left and never thought about it but the other day was the first day in 6 months that iv heard n e thing about him and i feel like im in twilight zone. he makes up lies in his head to justify the false problems that dont exist. he said one day he caught her cheating and she had braught a guy home w three of her girlfriends. the truth was that he stormed up thinking that she brought some one home and when he found out it was a mutual friend he just stormed out..... this guy is a mental trip.
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nightcreeper:
o hell yeah i bounced like no other i didnt even realize all of this till a few days ago. honestly he was just a guy i met that was really ddramatic. then i moved on. but wierd.
idreamofninjas:
Nice job getting out of there. Crazy people are unstable. Besides nobody needs the stress of another persons baggage. For example, mental problems.