I'm off to see the wizard today...the wonderful wizard of babies...we're off to meet her for lunch and find out once and for all (or at least I sure hope so) if she's gonna let US adopt her baby
i'm referring to the strange, flaky (although I do realize she IS pregnant and probably isn't this crazy normally) lady who we've been talking with over the past few months (and yet to meet), who is planning to put her baby up for adoption (or so she says)...and so we've been talking with her, trying to get some kinda final decision out of her...and she's probably gonna have the baby within the next month
well, i'm hoping it will finally all be decided today...if she doesn't come flat out and say it, I'm gonna try and straight-out ask her what her plans are, and if she's gonna let us or not...there's just not enough time left for her to procastinate anymore...she needs to at least TRY and make a decision...but I also have to do this all tactfully, because I'm not really trying to push her, since it IS her baby...god this is so frustrating
that's all for now...wish me luck
'til next time...
***update 6/5/03 4:45pm***
so we met yesterday...and I think things went well...she told us she wants us to get in touch with our lawyer and find out what we have to do next...but it looks the baby is a little underdeveloped right now (but everything else is fine)...so they're not sure when they'll try to get her out, but probably at least 3 weeks...but she's actually due in 6 weeks
she said that she was still a little scared about seeing the baby once it's born and changing her mind...which I'm glad she's truthful about it...and I assume most mothers go through stuff like that...but I guess we'll just have to take it as far as it goes, and go from there
...so things are a little positive at least
i'm referring to the strange, flaky (although I do realize she IS pregnant and probably isn't this crazy normally) lady who we've been talking with over the past few months (and yet to meet), who is planning to put her baby up for adoption (or so she says)...and so we've been talking with her, trying to get some kinda final decision out of her...and she's probably gonna have the baby within the next month
well, i'm hoping it will finally all be decided today...if she doesn't come flat out and say it, I'm gonna try and straight-out ask her what her plans are, and if she's gonna let us or not...there's just not enough time left for her to procastinate anymore...she needs to at least TRY and make a decision...but I also have to do this all tactfully, because I'm not really trying to push her, since it IS her baby...god this is so frustrating
that's all for now...wish me luck
'til next time...
***update 6/5/03 4:45pm***
so we met yesterday...and I think things went well...she told us she wants us to get in touch with our lawyer and find out what we have to do next...but it looks the baby is a little underdeveloped right now (but everything else is fine)...so they're not sure when they'll try to get her out, but probably at least 3 weeks...but she's actually due in 6 weeks
she said that she was still a little scared about seeing the baby once it's born and changing her mind...which I'm glad she's truthful about it...and I assume most mothers go through stuff like that...but I guess we'll just have to take it as far as it goes, and go from there
...so things are a little positive at least
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I didn't get a chance to have the peyote yet.. damn it.. but I'll let you know how it goes when I do!!
And GOOD LUCK!!!