Many things happened today.
But: there's only one thing I fancy posting...
I learned second hand tonight that my ex-girlfriend is going to marry her boyfriend.
A little background: we went out for 3 years until just over a year ago. For a good stretch of that, it was the maddest most insanely passionate love I could ever imagine. One and only ever imaginable love-of-my-life things. Took quite a bit of getting over.
So, anyway, the strange thing is that I'm not upset in the very slightest. I can honestly say that no part of me says "I wish that was me". Or even "that could have been me".
Anyone with experience of this? It feels a bit wrong not being heartbroken about it... maybe I've already said all my goodbyes.
I could write a lot here. Perhaps I will soon. xx
But: there's only one thing I fancy posting...
I learned second hand tonight that my ex-girlfriend is going to marry her boyfriend.
A little background: we went out for 3 years until just over a year ago. For a good stretch of that, it was the maddest most insanely passionate love I could ever imagine. One and only ever imaginable love-of-my-life things. Took quite a bit of getting over.
So, anyway, the strange thing is that I'm not upset in the very slightest. I can honestly say that no part of me says "I wish that was me". Or even "that could have been me".
Anyone with experience of this? It feels a bit wrong not being heartbroken about it... maybe I've already said all my goodbyes.
I could write a lot here. Perhaps I will soon. xx
arrrrr, me be thanking ye for the kind mouth sounds about me set...
Love doesn't have to last forever, no matter what they say. Apparently you did a good job of getting over her, so it sounds to me like you're in good shape.