I apologize for the whole "random joe offering comfort" thing, but anyone who doesn't get sparks off a Warcraft-playing, Qwantz-loving, makes-me-chuckle-in-my-gut-and-OH-YEAH-happens-to-have-a-stellar-body-too girl can only be deemed "soggy". And soggy folks have very little use to society, in general. And even less to girls who are clearly better than them.
I have done that once or twice, it does suck. But you are prolly better off for it. If you want to get over it with cheap meaningless sex then come up to Dallas
For what it's worth.