Ok I am at a litle bit of a crossroads-
1. My ex usually is a very considerate and thoughtful person. She is very tollerant of my calling every evening to talk to my daughter.
2. I have called my ex for the last 3 days and have yet to get a response. This in turn also means I have been unable to talk to my daughter for the last 3 days.
3. Now herein lies the conundrum. Do I take this as she is unable to communicate, and I should be concerned for her as well as my daughters well being. The other possible scenario being that some other reason exists for this lack of communication...I.E. out of town, without telling me she was taking my daughter. She is angry about something, yet instead of discussing it has instead chosen to withold my daughter (This being completely out of character).
So where now do I take this, I have called her and left messages, called her parents and left a message, and now am at a loss as to the next course of action. I suppose if I have not heard from her within the next 24 hours I will ask the local police to do a health and welfare check -or something.
Well it resolved it all by itself...she was in the hospital with a massive migraine..which unfortunately she has. These are ones so bad that I would equate it with getting kicked in the nuts for around 10 years every minute.
P.S. I got to talk to my daughter!!!!
1. My ex usually is a very considerate and thoughtful person. She is very tollerant of my calling every evening to talk to my daughter.
2. I have called my ex for the last 3 days and have yet to get a response. This in turn also means I have been unable to talk to my daughter for the last 3 days.
3. Now herein lies the conundrum. Do I take this as she is unable to communicate, and I should be concerned for her as well as my daughters well being. The other possible scenario being that some other reason exists for this lack of communication...I.E. out of town, without telling me she was taking my daughter. She is angry about something, yet instead of discussing it has instead chosen to withold my daughter (This being completely out of character).
So where now do I take this, I have called her and left messages, called her parents and left a message, and now am at a loss as to the next course of action. I suppose if I have not heard from her within the next 24 hours I will ask the local police to do a health and welfare check -or something.
Well it resolved it all by itself...she was in the hospital with a massive migraine..which unfortunately she has. These are ones so bad that I would equate it with getting kicked in the nuts for around 10 years every minute.
P.S. I got to talk to my daughter!!!!
chaostasis:
I'm glad you got to talk to your daughter. I get migraines but not the kind that put me in the hospital. Wow.