Ok here is a hypothetical situation.
(i like making up stories)
Say you're with a guy and you guys are in love and all that good stuff. you're together for let's say....10 months. You're happy together, you've talked about getting married you get along great with his friends. and one day your boyfriend tells you to prank text one of his best friends, since he doesn't know your number. you have a blast reading the ridiculous responses to the texts youre sending. So eventually you tell him "this is ______'s girlfriend by the way" and you get a good laugh out of it.
cut to a few weeks later, you've been stressing like crazy, you're unhappy, everything gets on your nerves, and the sex isn't so great anymore. you get a text from your mans best friend asking you to send him dirty pics. you laugh because you think he's joking and say "you first" just to be dumb, but minutes later you recieve a picture text of his dick. shocked, you don't reply, but he sends more and more. he tells you that he's thought that you were hot since he met you, and you tell him likewise. you get really deep into the conversation and pretty soon you find yourself on your way to his house to sleep with him.
when it's all done you agree not to ever speak of it and go home. the next day you can't get it out of your mind. the whole day, you're thinking about it, thinking about what he thinks about it, then the guilt sets in. you see your boyfriend later that night and he's holding you, telling you that he missed you and how much he loves you and you explode. you tell him you cheated on him. you don't tell him with who, but you tell him what you did and he accepts it. He's a little upset about it at first, but he said he never wants to be without you and he meant it.
what do you think about that situation? would you have went about it differently?
(i like making up stories)
Say you're with a guy and you guys are in love and all that good stuff. you're together for let's say....10 months. You're happy together, you've talked about getting married you get along great with his friends. and one day your boyfriend tells you to prank text one of his best friends, since he doesn't know your number. you have a blast reading the ridiculous responses to the texts youre sending. So eventually you tell him "this is ______'s girlfriend by the way" and you get a good laugh out of it.
cut to a few weeks later, you've been stressing like crazy, you're unhappy, everything gets on your nerves, and the sex isn't so great anymore. you get a text from your mans best friend asking you to send him dirty pics. you laugh because you think he's joking and say "you first" just to be dumb, but minutes later you recieve a picture text of his dick. shocked, you don't reply, but he sends more and more. he tells you that he's thought that you were hot since he met you, and you tell him likewise. you get really deep into the conversation and pretty soon you find yourself on your way to his house to sleep with him.
when it's all done you agree not to ever speak of it and go home. the next day you can't get it out of your mind. the whole day, you're thinking about it, thinking about what he thinks about it, then the guilt sets in. you see your boyfriend later that night and he's holding you, telling you that he missed you and how much he loves you and you explode. you tell him you cheated on him. you don't tell him with who, but you tell him what you did and he accepts it. He's a little upset about it at first, but he said he never wants to be without you and he meant it.
what do you think about that situation? would you have went about it differently?
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bumblebeetuba:
yeah i had been in situations where I could've cheated on my last gf, but we were in love and all was well. then when shit was down in the dumps and i fell out of love with her, I cheated on her. its a sign. he either will realize its hard to trust you or he is desperate to be with somebody he thinks he deserved it for some reason and will just be with you because. just my 2c.
tommygunner:
If you could cheat on him, its not worth it, the relationship is doomed.