Tuesday Jan 18, 2005

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Lousy Sex.

I can't seem to do 'the naughty' very well. I'm horrible in the sack. If sex were a fruit; I'd be a wax apple. I might look good on the outside, but I taste bland. I've been in more than one relationship that I can't either get myself off or the woman. I try so hard that I need to take a break, cause I tend to dehydrate. It feels like I'm doing manual labor. My recent girlfriend didn't get off at all while we had sex. I had no fun, and i got a cramp in my foot.

Any advice from someone with experience?

Should I be trying to hard to get the other person off?
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elanmars:
i say learn the art of getting your girl off with your hands. i don't know what i do wrong either (and it indeed sucks, specially when you hear other guys "yeah, i got her off 3 times, no problem!") when it comes to connecting genitals but getting them off like that at least is better than nothing.
grrrlafraid:
Sounds to me like you're thinking about it too much. When you do what feels good you'll get off. When you spend time concentrating on the act of cumming then you will never do it. You have to learn to calm down and let the sensations take you over. You also need to be able to communicate with your partner. Be sensitive to how whe is resonding to your actions. If you get overwhelmed too early...just slow it down...don't try so hard.

Those are my suggestions...hope they help.

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