About a year ago I got quite heavily into Female Domination. I started experimenting privately with a friend and then moved on to looking for subs online.
I had always been a switch, and still am with other femmes and non-binary people. I just found I can not switch with cis-men anymore. The relationship just doesn't work, sexually or otherwise: they need to submit to me. Only then, I feel that cis-men actually show me the respect I deserve and we can both grow through the relationship.
A couple of months ago, I started turning my passion into a full-time job. Now, I am a pro Domme at one of Berlin's most popular Domina studios, the Fetish Institute.
My motivations to work as a professional dominatrix are those of a tripple nature:
First of all, I believe in the therapeutic and political power of Female Domination. I am also a firm believer in feminism. In nowadays society, cis-men still hold most of the power and, more often than what it could seem, find themselves struggling with this power they have over the rest of the population: they recognize or intuit it to be wrong and unjust. They know they do not deserve nor want the extra pressure and privileges that an unfair patriarchal society has put onto them. Submitting to me, they find salvation: by serving me, they are able to heal themselves.
As an artist I consider Female Domination just as another art of mine. I take all my endeavours in an artistic way and very much enjoy interconnecting them to create them anew. I especially like letting my work as a dominatrix inspire me as a photographer. I think the work of the artist is to live in a state of play. And play is indeed the fuel of my work.
Last but not least, I am a sadist. I find joy in being able to release my sadistic urges in a controlled, consensual way, that will be only beneficial to all parts involved. As a dominatrix, I have plenty of opportunities to indulge in my sadism... Yes, I do love whipping a man!
And of course, it does feel great to get paid for doing what I love.
Getting to wear latex and leather most of the time is not bad, neither!
You can follow my adventures as a Domme via Twitter or Instagram. Check out My website, too! www.Mistress-Firewolf.com
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