Hmmmm... what to write about today?
Well what the hell... we've taken to the Lifestyle. And very much enjoyed it. But it has brought up things we've never had to deal with before. Which I think has been due to a couple things. First obviously is the nature of the Lifestyle, but so much is due to the fact that we have actually become 'social' beings. So many different things arise when you enter a social environment. It was seeming like Nereid and I were having more disagreements lately, than all the previous years together. So we went for a lovely meal out last nite and talked everything out.
And the conclusion we came up with is this: The Lifestyle is actually making our relationship so much stronger. Everyday, we learn so much more about each other (and we knew lots before.) and we are learning that much more about how to communicate, and how to resolve conflict within our marriage. And this is all good. Because as it was in our little cocoon of a life, we had VERY little conflict. Therefore we didn't really know how to resolve things. And had we continued that path for a number of years, it could have been bad for us if say ten years down the road some conflict came up that we didn't know how to deal with, and we had that ten years to 'build-up' our stubbornness... I'm sure you get the just of waht I'm trying to say here.
Anyways, Life is really REALLY good! period.
oh yeah, and got the floor started in the kitchen. Should have that done today, which will just leave the living room.
Yup!!!! Life is Fantastic!!!!!!!
Well what the hell... we've taken to the Lifestyle. And very much enjoyed it. But it has brought up things we've never had to deal with before. Which I think has been due to a couple things. First obviously is the nature of the Lifestyle, but so much is due to the fact that we have actually become 'social' beings. So many different things arise when you enter a social environment. It was seeming like Nereid and I were having more disagreements lately, than all the previous years together. So we went for a lovely meal out last nite and talked everything out.
And the conclusion we came up with is this: The Lifestyle is actually making our relationship so much stronger. Everyday, we learn so much more about each other (and we knew lots before.) and we are learning that much more about how to communicate, and how to resolve conflict within our marriage. And this is all good. Because as it was in our little cocoon of a life, we had VERY little conflict. Therefore we didn't really know how to resolve things. And had we continued that path for a number of years, it could have been bad for us if say ten years down the road some conflict came up that we didn't know how to deal with, and we had that ten years to 'build-up' our stubbornness... I'm sure you get the just of waht I'm trying to say here.
Anyways, Life is really REALLY good! period.
oh yeah, and got the floor started in the kitchen. Should have that done today, which will just leave the living room.
Yup!!!! Life is Fantastic!!!!!!!
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ali_bug:
YOU SHOULD TOTALLY GET YOUR NIPPLES!!! YES YES! LOL
ali_bug:
hahaa i haven't done any nipples yet!!