Requesting to be my friend on this site without having any interaction with me. It’s a no-no. You think I don’t have blogs here for you to see, but they’re private for my friends. I have older blogs that are probably now public for the site since before there wasn’t a thing called followers, we would just be friends.
If you want to join the Plus Sized Women’s group, I’ve most likely have messaged a number of members, if you don’t meet the requirements and offered to answer anyone’s questions. Lurkers are a No No. I’ve only been on this site for 11 years and interaction with folks have declined. Some members want anonymity, which I fully understand. BUT some of these lurkers take photos from these groups where non models, like myself have shared our own personal photos, and post them elsewhere. You know how scary that is? It’s really a community and if I do not know you, or have anyone else truly know your activity on the site. I can’t risk it.
You’re not forced to put your name, address, age and job on here. No one is asking that from you. Saying you don’t have time to post a simple blog about your activities or hobbies because you don’t have time, but all I see if your liking photos and videos of girls. Well then does that mean you don’t care about the members posts/blogs unless their SG/ Hopefuls? Then continue with that outside of the group. Oh you pay to see someone on their own patreon, or Snapchat premium, no, you did not buy your way into the group. This site wasn’t about tits and asses. It was about SGs embracing their bodies and style while not fitting the mold that media would shove down your throats. Suicide the mainstream and be your own. The models that shared themselves and creativity through sets is amazing. The groups and friendships made within the community kept this going. The payment for this site is nothing for all the content you get for it.
So please be understanding that sometimes groups are private to protect members that share personal photos or content. If you want to chat and make friends. This is the moment. It doesn’t have to be me, I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but there will be other amazing members to connect with. If you’re new and need help with guidance, feel free to ask.
Love ya’ll.
~Nanette
Here’s a friendly gif to show I’m not a bitter woman. Just a silly lady.
