So tonight I went out with a girl who I've liked for a long time. I started talking to her on Myspace and tonight we met in person for the first time. She has 2 beautiful girls ( a boy and a girl) and she brought them along. This really wasn't a date because we're not going out. See, she going through a lot right now and has a lot of things going on with her with her dating life that it would be wrong to ask her out. She's been getting screwed over by guys a lot and I've been getting scrwed over by girls a lot, so I said to her "Why don't we get together" or something along those lines. Anyway, last night we went to the store and she got some baby wipes/diapers for her kids, then we went to the mall and we went into Hot Topic where I got her daughter (who's 2) I got her a little Nightmare Before Christmas hoodie and I even gave her my Lady and The Tramp dog that I got a long time ago. While at the mall we went and saw Santa, so she could tell Santa what she wanted, so she did and then Santa gave her a toy duck. Then we went to Target to buy more X-mas gifts, so her friends children could get some stuff. Her daughter Astrid was going crazy in the toy section asking me and her mom all of the things she wanted I'd hold her hand across the street and hold her in my arms at times. She was giggling and having fun. I even fed her son who's not even a year old. After that we went to drop her kids off a my friend's house to babysit them while we went to the concert. Before the show I stuck out my arm and said "May I?" and she put her arm thru. At the concert her and I had a good time. After the show she tripped on the sidewalk and almst fell over. We went to picck up heer kids and they were oassed out, I took her daughter in my arms and put her in her childseat and she took her son and put him in his seat and we were on our way back to my place. I hugged her when she got to my place and we hugged twice in the car.
For the last 3 days her and I have been talking about her moving to Ames (her choice and decision) so I've been helping her by looking online for houses here in town and there are a few that look interesting. She is curently applying for a loan *fingers crossed* Hopefully she gets it, so that she can move to my hometown (She also said that she doesn't wanna live with her parents annymore and hates it where she's at). I mentioned to her in the car that I would like to date her, but being that she's kind of in a sticky situation with her current ex (who's a HUGE asshole) I told her that I'd wait until she's ready to be with me and to call me once she got home. I just got done talking with her now and she's hanging with her friends before she goes to sleep and goes to work at 7am. I REALLY like this girl a lot
For the last 3 days her and I have been talking about her moving to Ames (her choice and decision) so I've been helping her by looking online for houses here in town and there are a few that look interesting. She is curently applying for a loan *fingers crossed* Hopefully she gets it, so that she can move to my hometown (She also said that she doesn't wanna live with her parents annymore and hates it where she's at). I mentioned to her in the car that I would like to date her, but being that she's kind of in a sticky situation with her current ex (who's a HUGE asshole) I told her that I'd wait until she's ready to be with me and to call me once she got home. I just got done talking with her now and she's hanging with her friends before she goes to sleep and goes to work at 7am. I REALLY like this girl a lot
nhia:
I wish you much luck with her!!!!!!!!!!!!!
deny:
Awesome... Just be careful though. Ex's can be a pain, especially if they're not ready to let go. Make sure he is out of the picture before you try anything serious with her.