the question i pose to anyone is. is being jealous a way to show your way to care or away of control? and if it is a way of control is it wrong or right? or is a sign of love and caring? is being absolutely in love good or a bad thing because if it is bad i'm screwed! to love is it a creation of miss leading faith in someone or a true way to live? if anyone nows the answer tell me 
If you love someone you should trust them.
If you can't trust them then you aren't really in love.
And if you love someone who has broken your trust then they don't really love you.