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so my boyfriend just told me that he probably won't find me beautiful when I'm heavily tattooed and pierced. he called the dermal anchor corset back piercing I have planned and was stoked on earlier "disgusting" and said that he really doesn't want me to get it because he thinks I'll look awful with it. we just had this long fight because he thinks a lot of piercings and tattoos on a girl is ugly. and he told me, I'd look ugly with all of my planned work done. I'm never going to change myself for anyone. but he basically said, don't do this, or I'll never see you as beautiful again.

he just hung up on me cause I said he was just like everyone else who has harsh opinions on tattoos. he said I'd be ugly to him...and I know that one day he probably won't love me the same because of the modifications I want to make to my body.

I love him so much and he tells me everyday how he'll always love me and how much I mean to him...but now he said this to me and I'm not sure what's going to happen next

I'm too stunned to cry. I am just shocked.
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erichasfinewine:
You must stay true to yourself. The minute you start changing yourself to make someone else feel good about themselves, you start losing yourself. If he loves you he will support you, even though he might not fully like it. Don't give in. kiss kiss biggrin love love love biggrin biggrin
Apr 1, 2008
evilgasm:
OK.... first off, ask yourself WHY you want so many modifications. Because it sounds like you want an awful lot of them.... That is a sing of something deeper than just "decorating" your body.

Secondly: take a good look at everything you want. something that is beautiful by it's self can become truly hideous in combination with something else (even if that something may be beautiful in it's own right). Overkill can become a big problem, especially in body mods.

Lastly just ask your BF why he feels you would be less beautiful with the mods. you may find his answer helpful. body mods can be cool... they can look awesome... but you should never think they are an improvement of your body. just an addition. and for the record, you look pretty fucking hot as you arewink
Apr 1, 2008

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