mtnbike99

R.E.M. At the fillmore!!!
Amazing show in a small venue by my favorite band...
When I got home last night my daughter said "you have the biggest smile on your face" and then she asked me to tell her about the show.

So at the show - had a group of people we met just hanging out - fun!
(Weird stuff and wonder what I am putting out to attract this and looking for feedback) First woman was telling me what an REM fan she was - we talked and it was fun - going over fav performances, her freind started hanging around/on me...
met another couple.. talked about how cool it was to see a big band in a small venue and how much we were willing to pay to see that. When REM started the woman he was with him started singing and dancing with me..gragged my hand a few times.... and kept checking to see if the bf noticed..so what the hell am I creating in my life??..then they left before the end of the show...
then the " hanging on me" girl came back, rubbed up against me the rest of the show, and seemed sisappointed when I bolted at the end of the show...
So my question is: "what am I doing to bring this stuff into my life?"
I love being nice to people, and yet I dont feel comfortable telling someone "you just don't do it for me..."
.. just looking for perspective and other insights..

Other than that .. Was a great show, great weekend, fun times great people!!