Wednesday Jun 23, 2010

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Quite stumped..

Been talking to this person for probably almost a year now I think. We get along quite well. They are in nsw while i'm in QLD, which is cool. Some reason, I tend to talk too more people interstate or another country than my own city, go figure!

But whenever she says she wants to see my body, supposedly i change and this makes her angry.

I've been big all my life.. following pic shows, it's from 2001.



These days I'm looking like this..



What I don't think she understands it, losing almost 50kg leaves a massive mark. That mark is loose skin and still a bit of fat and the ever so nice MOOBS. I don't see this as something anyone would want to see, more a turn off than anything..

I tend to swing the conversation away from my body by being stupid to distract her. She then gets annoyed and stops talking to me for a few days..

what the!!

Should I even care about this? Is she just being over the top about it or what.. Annoying the hell out of me..
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phecda:
I don't think she means to hurt your feelings to be honest. I just think she is more offended that you can't trust her to share your body with her. She obviously is attracted to you and obviously wants to share aspects of your life with you, but maybe this is a wall that you're putting up and avoiding and it makes her feel like you don't want to let her in. This is just a dif. perspective, though. I wish you the best kiss
tinkly:
I really cant put into words hearing that someone understands. Thank you so much for the kind words. Your a genius and very very lovely man smile

As for your problem. I totally agree with Phecda - one other thing i would say. She may just not understand how you feel. If you care for her - be honest. If she cares for you she will understand smile

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