So I'm sitting here enjoying a giant mug of piping hot tea, and checking my varrious e-vices and such. I venture over to my e-mail and there is a e-mail from my father saying suprise, your mother will be out to Santa Fe , and she's gonna visit for a week. I don't know if anybody finds this as terrifying as I do. I love my mom don't get me wrong but now that I'm older sometimes parents vists can be really draining. I feel torn like I would love to see my mom, but I also feel rushed . I'm still settling in my new apartment, I barely have funiture, and am no were ready to house my mother in my apartment for a week. I feel like geoge on Sinfield right now ha ha Bah , I'm being silly I guess i'll just have to make do. 
Anyway, I can relate. My parents are coming soon to be with me while I have surgery and it so not going to do me any good...it's nice and all but it is more for them than me.