So, me and my boyfriend went to a mom and pop video store to poke around, and they were having a sale on their porn section. So we went to go poke around. All that was left was the really bottom of the barrel, homemade terrible stuff, of course... but my bf was really excited. He asked me 4 ! Times if I wanted to get one. Now, I know guys are gonna want to watch porn. Totally normal. Buit this stuff was all the sort that I could never get into, like really trashy and demeaning to women. So it would obviously not be for my benefit at all. I didn't act pissed or say no, I just laughed... but he kept asking. I'm a bit miffed... guys, please advise?
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I gotta say....thats kinda creepy.
I like porn as much as the next guy, but real life is better. You are a very attractive young woman and I cannot understand his fixation. If someone was like that with me I would leave them, and heres why:
It may not seem like an issue now, but it IS. It may not BE an issue now, but it WILL be.
Sexually relating to your significant other is very important. Him ignoring your needs will leave you unfulfilled, you not wanting to share in his "needs" will have the same affect on him. That pretty much spells a no-win situation.
And if he does not have the balls to be honest about his likes or dislikes after THREE YEARS, then he will not be in another three years.
I think its time for you to plan your "exit strategy".
I find it kind of infuriating that someone would ignore you sexually in favor of porn. You seem like a very nice person that is open to things more than most, yet some idiot wants to get his rocks off to a video instead of you!? You should really be a bit more offended.