*sigh* having relationship issues. Me and my bf have been together fo about 2 years and I'm feeling so... bored. He's a wonderful, caring and sweet person.... but I feel totally and utterly bored with him. I am really outgoing, creative and do a lot of social activities, events and creative projects. He has no drive and no hobbies. Literally, not one. He doesn't EVER go out. he does not have friends. I have to beg him to leave the house! He works, comes home, watches tv and that is it! The only time he does anything is if I am doing something and he comes along. So we have nothing to talk about. At all. He has nothing to say! He has 2 degrees in film, and does not try to find a film indusrty job. I have told him to look out of state, because he claims there is no industry in CO. Which he doesn't do. He graduated 2 years ago and has done nothing with his degree and doesn't plan to that I can see. He doest produce anything creative. He doesn't read. He drinks too much, like, way too much and drives. I shouldn't have to nitpick a grown man not to drink until he passes out, every weekend. And, the worst thing of all, we have have no sex life. I'm completely un attracted to him.
which sucks totally because we had the most amazing sex life of all time when we started dating. But I just am disgusted with his personal higene and not proud of him for the alcoholisim and the laziness. Arrrggg! What am I gonna do?!? *sad*

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I believe that relationships should be easy. Yes, you have to work to make them easy. But, its a negative return to spend more time working to make a relationship enjoyable than actually enjoying it.
That being said I think communication is key. The relationship worked at one point, what's changed. Often times we can't see for ourselves the patterns and things that we do.
Best of luck.