is it badd to assume that my best friend of well over 8 years is possable gay and has a huge crush on me to be ruined my every girl i seek. i am in a delemma when is it time to say enough, piss off i cant live this way it is not my lifestile i need this person to reallize that i am not the one of happyness but one who will only make you seem more week open up let it out im not for you but i will help you out. 