What are your goals and dreams in life? What do you strive to be? I actually would like to hear your responses. I ask because I feel lost in life. Since I was a little kid I only had one real dream. Grow up, get a house, find a girl to fall in love with, marry her and have a big family. (Maybe a dog) but I never had clue as to the means of creating my vision. I never figured out how to smooth the edges on my design and make it fly. I'm looking for that woman to be my one and only. I struggle daily to think of a career that will support us in case my wife would like to stay at home for the kids. (I say that because I would like her to have that choice and it not be a necessity to work.) Besides, even though I have the new age understanding, I still have the old school mentality hardwired in and to have to make her work would be nothing less than shameful and disgracing for me.