THE EROGENOUS ZONE: No strings attached?
Surely you're familiar with the concept of "friends with benefits": all the sex you want without the stress and weight of a relationship to bring you down. I'd even bet that you've been there yourself, or at least entertained the thought. Maybe it's how you choose to do all your business, or maybe it's water you'll never tread again. Either way, it's definitely an interesting situation to find yourself in.
These things happen for a variety of reasons. Say two people go on a few dates but only feel sparks in the bedroom. Or maybe it didn't work out for a couple, but they still wind up sleeping together because, hey, at least that part of their relationship wasn't screwed up.
What's wrong with enjoying a connection you have with someone else for what it is - purely sexual? Nothing, as long as the conditions are right. But therein lies the problem. There is always something to complicate everything...
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Surely you're familiar with the concept of "friends with benefits": all the sex you want without the stress and weight of a relationship to bring you down. I'd even bet that you've been there yourself, or at least entertained the thought. Maybe it's how you choose to do all your business, or maybe it's water you'll never tread again. Either way, it's definitely an interesting situation to find yourself in.
These things happen for a variety of reasons. Say two people go on a few dates but only feel sparks in the bedroom. Or maybe it didn't work out for a couple, but they still wind up sleeping together because, hey, at least that part of their relationship wasn't screwed up.
What's wrong with enjoying a connection you have with someone else for what it is - purely sexual? Nothing, as long as the conditions are right. But therein lies the problem. There is always something to complicate everything...
READ THE REST of my weekly column here:
http://www.carolinianonline.com/media/paper301/news/2006/03/14/Life/The-Erogenous.Zone.No.Strings.Attached-1686241.shtml?norewrite&sourcedomain=www.carolinianonline.com&mkey=1384336
It's free...you just have to register with the site. There's no spam, I promise.
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nc_guy:
Oh, that's right. VR took Iron Maiden's place. I also got to see Sabbath in the '04 show, and that was a dream come true for sure (along with Judas Priest). Judas Priest really stole the show that year in my opinion. I'm beginning to realize how good I had it that year.
wired:
welcome to the site....NC. is a beautiful sate. 