i went to a college friends wedding this weekend. it was so great. its a shame i'm a marriage phobic. my poor mother. thats just a little too much resopnsibility for me. hell i cant even spell the word. yeah... no thanks. i even jumped out of the way when she aimed for me during the bouqet toss. im pathetic. but i will never be chained to some idiot for the rest of my life. so ha!