finally. i am lifted and free. single at last for the first time, truely single, in my adult life. it feels so good to be able to say that and mean it, to be sure of it. you dont realize how great something people think is horrible, being alone, can be til you dont have your own space the way you want it to be. im not a hater on my ex's. all two of them. they are good guys but not for me. i wish them luck in finding someone more fitted to them. it may not have ended well but they will get over it maybe, and maybe they wont make the same mistakes again as they did this time. im not perfect but i have nvr called them a name, black-maled them, lied to them (i have left info out about things that didnt pretain to them, like info about past relationships that i felt wasnt relavant to know) or been in any way purposely hurtful. i may push buttons or be stubborn or what not but i am not mean and disrepectful and immature. its all good tho. good luck to you and i hope for the best. everything is a learning expierence. i sure have learned alot.
thecicco:
congrats, sounds like you're really happy now