Boy, when things go wrong, things go really wrong. And then all at once, they go right!
This weekend, I have three dates, with three wonderful guys. Tonight I'm going to see the new Oz movie with Dave, tomorrow I'm going to the space with Maria to see Moose, who I get to cuddle the night away, and Sunday, I'm going to see A Castle...
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This weekend, I have three dates, with three wonderful guys. Tonight I'm going to see the new Oz movie with Dave, tomorrow I'm going to the space with Maria to see Moose, who I get to cuddle the night away, and Sunday, I'm going to see A Castle...
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Because I'm sad, and require some cheer in my life, if someone buys this for me, I will knit them a pair of gloves:
Unicorns Are Jerks
Unicorns Are Jerks
arroia:
Now that is awesome, and I want one too. 
Life just isn't going my way these days.
Andrew has decided he doesn't want to date me, like I hoped. He wants to date someone else, after telling me that he'd never date that person, he wants to be single right now, and if he was going to date anyone right now, it would be me. I fear I'm not practicing very good poly. My...
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Andrew has decided he doesn't want to date me, like I hoped. He wants to date someone else, after telling me that he'd never date that person, he wants to be single right now, and if he was going to date anyone right now, it would be me. I fear I'm not practicing very good poly. My...
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hodor:
"It seems more like Andrew just keeps you around because you're a good fuck, and shits on you when someone else comes along"
This ^^
Being poly doesn't mean you have to be involved with just anybody. If he isn't going to treat you right, then, quite frankly, he isn't worth you, no matter what your feelings are for him. It sounds like your heart needs protecting in this instance, so listen to your head. Don't put yourself in that position with him, it will just lead to more heartache.
Equally, if you aren't a monogamous person, then I see no harm in seeing this other guy, and it may provide a source of comfort and relief from heartache. Just be careful not to transfer your feelings to him in the loss of Andrew.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best
*big bear hugs* xx
This ^^
Being poly doesn't mean you have to be involved with just anybody. If he isn't going to treat you right, then, quite frankly, he isn't worth you, no matter what your feelings are for him. It sounds like your heart needs protecting in this instance, so listen to your head. Don't put yourself in that position with him, it will just lead to more heartache.
Equally, if you aren't a monogamous person, then I see no harm in seeing this other guy, and it may provide a source of comfort and relief from heartache. Just be careful not to transfer your feelings to him in the loss of Andrew.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best
*big bear hugs* xx
hodor:
I know what you mean about already knowing something. It's nice hearing it from other people just to confirm that you're right and to silence any inner voices contending the opinion!!!!
Hope you feel better soon xx
Hope you feel better soon xx
According to Barney, I need to stop being sad, and be awesome instead. Good advice, Stinson. The life lessons from How I Met Your Mother continue.
Damn, now I have a hankering for some fluffy pancakes and bacon.
Damn, now I have a hankering for some fluffy pancakes and bacon.
heatdude:
Being sad sucks...I just hate it when you know life is pretty good but somehow it just isnt...Dam now i want bacon..
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mydogfarted:
I'm all about Chunky Monkey.
tylert:
I love Cherry Garcia
I wanna hippopotamus for Christmas.
No crocodiles, no rhinoceroses, I only like hippopotamuses...
And hippopotamuses like me too.
No crocodiles, no rhinoceroses, I only like hippopotamuses...
And hippopotamuses like me too.
themainman:
Love that song!
I suppose life isnt all terrible. When one door closes, another one opens. There will always be new opportunities. And the friends I thought I lost have returned. Every negative is balanced out by an equal positive. Sometimes the bad comes in waves, but are bettered with amazing moments. Life is a series of moments, that sifts through our fingers. But we need to remember...
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burntsolace:
Hurray for life not sucking! And for you have perspective to be able to see that.
heatdude:
yea cause sucky lives are no bueno..
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burntsolace:
Awwwww
heatdude:
You got that right
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burntsolace:
Sounds like all the steps are in god directions!!
Things I do at my boring part time IT job:
1. Do homework
2. Watch Netflix and Youtube
3. Get a numb butt from sitting too long
4. Turn on and off projectors
5. Locate printers on computers
6. Get frustrated at printers
7. Slam into printer because it won't work
8. Put an out of order sign on printer
9. Watch scary movies at...
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1. Do homework
2. Watch Netflix and Youtube
3. Get a numb butt from sitting too long
4. Turn on and off projectors
5. Locate printers on computers
6. Get frustrated at printers
7. Slam into printer because it won't work
8. Put an out of order sign on printer
9. Watch scary movies at...
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burntsolace:
Well sounds exciting
Andrew and I broke up tonight. We'd both had enough. Although, we don't do conventional break ups. Tomorrow night we're having a last hurrah, with cake and sexy times...very similar to our first break up.
Despite the fact I've never loved anyone more...I'm actually ok with this, I think...
Although, I desire hugs and compliments!
Despite the fact I've never loved anyone more...I'm actually ok with this, I think...
Although, I desire hugs and compliments!
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markpainter:
Oh I see,making some changes.
heatdude:
Hope your doing ok.
Sorry about your depression. That's so tough. But I'm glad to hear you're getting a second opinion. Second opinions can confirm or save people from awful stuff. Good luck with that.
And I'm with Oxy..................JEALOUSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (but not too.... have a great time.)