mindance

So today is shitty.
I always try to stay positive. And I can see the upsides on everything. But doesnt change the fact that this still sucks. After 34 years of Marriage my parents decided to divorce. Well my mom decided to pull the trigger. She wouldnt tell me what was the tipping point. Although I know what it was. But she didnt know I knew. Because I felt it was between them. They really haven't been happy for years. Haven't slept in the same room for almost 10 years. A few years ago my dad started seeing someone behind my moms back. And I couldnt blame him. He wasn't getting his needs met.
My dad wasnt happy.
My mom wasnt happy.
Its for the best.
Just sucks.
My dad makes twice as much as my mom. And I dont know how the allimony will work. My mom basically asked him to move out of there house.
The housing market is so bad right now it wouldnt be smart to sell the house now.
I basically told my mom I hope they can come to an agreement on what she feels she needs to get by and to not be greedy.
I dont know what other advice I could give her.
I have yet to talk to my dad as he left on a vacation today.
I dont know how he took it. Although he is a quiet person. My mom says he didnt really say anything.
Gahhhh I cried at work. I haven't cried in like 2 years.