I am so so sick of the stupid Double Standards between Men & Women!!
Why is it that single men who sleep around with whomever they choose are Players & Ballers but single women who sleep around are Sluts & Whores?!! Yes, I am single but I am very picky with whom I sleep. Why can't I have boy toys & not be judged for having them? I feel like I am Strong in my sexuality as a woman; I draw Power in my being a Puma
. I don't sleep with every dick that's out there but when I do see something I like, I pounce. Why is it so Taboo for us females to be strong in our sexuality?
Women are especially judgemental & mean when it comes to women who use their body or who are honest in their sexual prowness. I had an experience on Facebook where a guy friend had posted: "There is no power greater than that of the Penis" & I had commented back: "That's nothing compared to the power of the pussy, my friend!" 3 of his friends liked my comment & I felt proud of my comeback until one of his female friends had commented: "A slut uses her pussy to control men. A real woman doesn't need to do that."
Maybe I took it too personally, but I did feel like she was calling me a slut for making that comment. I contemplated replying back, but I didn't want to start a fight or acknowledge the fact that I was hurt by her words. After all, it's only Facebook & I did not want to put power behind her words. I am NOT a slut or a whore just because I said that. & she even made a big deal of me using the word "pussy". Yes, I know that term offends some people, but what should I have said? "Flower" or "vagina" or some other soft term?! What the fuck?!
What are your thoughts on this, my friends? Do you also think that there's a double standard when it comes to sex? Was I in the wrong for making that Facebook comment? Thanks & Love...
Why is it that single men who sleep around with whomever they choose are Players & Ballers but single women who sleep around are Sluts & Whores?!! Yes, I am single but I am very picky with whom I sleep. Why can't I have boy toys & not be judged for having them? I feel like I am Strong in my sexuality as a woman; I draw Power in my being a Puma. I don't sleep with every dick that's out there but when I do see something I like, I pounce. Why is it so Taboo for us females to be strong in our sexuality?
Women are especially judgemental & mean when it comes to women who use their body or who are honest in their sexual prowness. I had an experience on Facebook where a guy friend had posted: "There is no power greater than that of the Penis" & I had commented back: "That's nothing compared to the power of the pussy, my friend!" 3 of his friends liked my comment & I felt proud of my comeback until one of his female friends had commented: "A slut uses her pussy to control men. A real woman doesn't need to do that."
Maybe I took it too personally, but I did feel like she was calling me a slut for making that comment. I contemplated replying back, but I didn't want to start a fight or acknowledge the fact that I was hurt by her words. After all, it's only Facebook & I did not want to put power behind her words. I am NOT a slut or a whore just because I said that. & she even made a big deal of me using the word "pussy". Yes, I know that term offends some people, but what should I have said? "Flower" or "vagina" or some other soft term?! What the fuck?!
What are your thoughts on this, my friends? Do you also think that there's a double standard when it comes to sex? Was I in the wrong for making that Facebook comment? Thanks & Love...
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raveneffect32:
women should have just as much right to have Feb than guys do. I don't know, maybe its because people hold this huge ideal on what sex is and can't understand that it CAN be something that is fun and has nothing to do with love... all in all, I say fuck those people, they aren't worth getting upset over
chameleonbiscuit:
Haters gonna hate...