Morons Your Bus Is Leaving.
One of the things that never fails to keep me amused when I'm in Leeds bus station at some ungodly hour trying to stay awake and about to embark on another day of corporate slavery is people's inherent ability to fail to notice the most obvious of things case in point being the people that try to go out through the doors and cut across the bus park only to find the doors don't open. Apparently I'm the only person who can see the big sign that says "This door will only open when there is a bus in front of it". There's also the always amusing sight of all the smokers lined up outside the main entrance all puffing smoke like a row of human chimneys looking thoroughly displeased at the new no smoking allowed policy.
Yes,No,Maybe,I Can't ?????????
So for anyone paying attention to my rambling less than regular neurotic catharsis of a blog I've been contemplating asking out a girl a work well I decided I was thinking too much about it so I just did it and I asked her out the other day. Her answer just confused the hell out of me to be honest. I was expecting the usual "You're a nice guy but ...." answer or a straight to the point no or a rather unlikely yes but the answer I got was "I can't", now it might be me who's a little rusty at this dating lark but saying "I can't" means not this week maybe later. So I asked her "what do you mean by I can't" I said if she was attached that was fine I just wanted to know what she meant, she said she was" kind of attached" which confused me even more only for her to then say "well I am attached really" all this was a little frustrating a simple no would have saved me a big headache. A girls perspective would probably help me out. We're still friends in fact it's like the whole incident never happened which is what happened the last time I asked a girl out at work which was a while back. I suppose I should be grateful she's not avoiding me after turning down my proposed outing. It is a little frustrating though it's like seeing a load of money on the floor and knowing you can't pick it up.
Admiting Defeat
So I've given up on the whole driving venture after spending 6 months doing driving lessons and making progress so slowly it makes evolution seem quite speedy I've come to the conclusion that me and cars aren't a good combination. I don't think I have the patience for it really, add that to the fact the only way I could get a decent car that wasn't going to fall apart in 5 minutes would be to get a loan and get in debt which unlike everyone else my age is something I try to avoid. Considering how bad a lot of people drive from what I've seen I'm quite glad I'm not going to have to deal with morons who don't ever indicate or the people who drive around with their hazard lights on.
Sit. Rep.
As Christmas gets nearer my place of work gets more and more insanely busy so by the time I get home I'm pretty much ready to collapse which is why my updates are generally a few weeks apart incase anyone was wondering.
One of the things that never fails to keep me amused when I'm in Leeds bus station at some ungodly hour trying to stay awake and about to embark on another day of corporate slavery is people's inherent ability to fail to notice the most obvious of things case in point being the people that try to go out through the doors and cut across the bus park only to find the doors don't open. Apparently I'm the only person who can see the big sign that says "This door will only open when there is a bus in front of it". There's also the always amusing sight of all the smokers lined up outside the main entrance all puffing smoke like a row of human chimneys looking thoroughly displeased at the new no smoking allowed policy.
Yes,No,Maybe,I Can't ?????????
So for anyone paying attention to my rambling less than regular neurotic catharsis of a blog I've been contemplating asking out a girl a work well I decided I was thinking too much about it so I just did it and I asked her out the other day. Her answer just confused the hell out of me to be honest. I was expecting the usual "You're a nice guy but ...." answer or a straight to the point no or a rather unlikely yes but the answer I got was "I can't", now it might be me who's a little rusty at this dating lark but saying "I can't" means not this week maybe later. So I asked her "what do you mean by I can't" I said if she was attached that was fine I just wanted to know what she meant, she said she was" kind of attached" which confused me even more only for her to then say "well I am attached really" all this was a little frustrating a simple no would have saved me a big headache. A girls perspective would probably help me out. We're still friends in fact it's like the whole incident never happened which is what happened the last time I asked a girl out at work which was a while back. I suppose I should be grateful she's not avoiding me after turning down my proposed outing. It is a little frustrating though it's like seeing a load of money on the floor and knowing you can't pick it up.
Admiting Defeat
So I've given up on the whole driving venture after spending 6 months doing driving lessons and making progress so slowly it makes evolution seem quite speedy I've come to the conclusion that me and cars aren't a good combination. I don't think I have the patience for it really, add that to the fact the only way I could get a decent car that wasn't going to fall apart in 5 minutes would be to get a loan and get in debt which unlike everyone else my age is something I try to avoid. Considering how bad a lot of people drive from what I've seen I'm quite glad I'm not going to have to deal with morons who don't ever indicate or the people who drive around with their hazard lights on.
Sit. Rep.
As Christmas gets nearer my place of work gets more and more insanely busy so by the time I get home I'm pretty much ready to collapse which is why my updates are generally a few weeks apart incase anyone was wondering.
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What I think? Well, I guess there's not much for you to do, other than continue as friends, I mean. Now she knows how you feel and all, so if she wants to, she's the one to take the next step. It sounds to me like she's in a relationship either where she's not quite sure if it's working out or it's new and stuff. Give her some time....
Not all girls distance themselves from guys who asked them out. the one person I talked with the most at my former job, was a guy who confessed to be in love with me. He knew I'm in a relationship that I definitely don't want to leave, but wanted me to know anyway. Didn't affect our relationship much.
Giving up on driving? Hmm.... Well, maybe in a couple of years you'll give it another go. I couldn't live without my license...