melaniek

I need to make myself a list of the things that I want in a relationship.....I really do. There are a few things that are a given......LOVE, DESIRE, FRIENDSHIP. But I also think that there are other things that also define your relationship with another person. I know that he will have to be an animal lover-not interspecies erotica, mind you-but care about all kinds of animals. I would like someone that wants to try to have a child. I know that he will have to be able to try and be open to new things. I know that he should be willing to make the same sacrifices that I am willing to make...not that I am asking someone to move for me, but it should be a consideration. I know that I should be his first choice and he should be my first choice. He should be willing and able to tell me his thoughts, dreams, fantasies.....and I should be able to tell him mine. I know that he should be willing to travel, be willing to go to shows, be willing to go to movies that I want to see. And this all should be reciprocated by ME.
I will have to get on that list. When I am ready for a relationship, I want to be able to check things off!!!

And if I never find that person, I have a back-up plan of 1) being an old cat lady or 2) moving in with Jeff and just be life roomies that have teh secks!
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