oh sweetie i just ran into yout thread......sorry to hear about your girlfriend......you know if you really cared for her, you'd would forgive her for whatever she does....but i had the same problem with my ex of 4 years....i feel for you....i never gave him the chance after what he pulled on me.... i wouldn't stress...wait till she contacts you and then you know it was meant to be....
haha...i'm not obsess, really!?...with all these messages it looks like i am. sorry....i just always try and reply