Sunday Feb 21, 2010

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So I talked to my Georgia boy and we agreeded no sex before marriage because sex isn't a relationship and I have never been so comfortable with making the decision not to have sex. But we said this like 3 hours ago and I asked him so now what, and he hasn't responded. I am sure because it's lights out he fell asleep or something but it still really fucking sucks it's driving me nuts. Lol.

I know I will wake up to a text from him or something but that's not til like 4 in the morning which just blows. LOL!

Well thanks everyone for listening.

I guess I should explain the reason for writing on here. Well the guy is on my FB and so are some of his old coworkers and they don't know what is going on yet and one of them has a HUGE fucking mouth that will blab to the whole fucking world that him and I are doing whatever it is that we are doing.

So yea that is my update as of tonight. Lol
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bigbake1:
I say have sex.

My ex-fiance and I waited, then finally did have sex BEFORE marriage. THANK GOD we did. She and I were not compatable sexually, literally and physically. Had we waited the marriage would have ended in divorce or I would have had to go somehwere else for a fulfilling sexual relationship.

Sex is not the whole relationship but IS A VERY BIG PART OF IT, just like spirituality, common goals, common interests. The only reason men and women ever got together in the first place was for SEX. Hell, 99% of the time we don't understand each other, don't get along, and can hardly live or work together. SEX is the one common NEED that brings us together and helps us to compromise and actually have a relationship.

Bottom line, I don't drive a car without test driving and knowing it feels right, smells right, and drives (me) right!

I respect you for your decision but from personal experience I think it's a big mistake.

Best of luck to both of you.

Michael
nikonphoto80:
Wow that is pretty beautiful, I dont know if I could wait, that is pretty amazing.

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