I hate people who think they have haters. Ironic huh?
Don't hate.
<nerd laugh>
For real though, if everyone is 'hating' on you it most likely doesn't mean that you're justthatawesome...It just means that you probably suck.
Hard.
Need proof? Okie dokie:
I used to think I had haters. Then I did a little soul searching (really, just a little, this topic is not that deep) and realized that I was angry and sad. It was to the point that it was making my outsides less attractive too. I did a little spring cleaning (yoga, volunteering and a move) and ~surprise!~ you guessed it. No more 'haters'.
People aren't as petty as most might think (romantic warfare and teenagers excluded). Most people are glad to see others succeed. It gives them something pleasant to be a part of and something nice to look at. People like bright and shiny things. I think this might go back to hunter/gatherer times when the success and physical attributes of one group member meant increased advantages for the group. That could be a real thing or complete bull b.t.w. because it just entered my brain.
You're maybe wondering what brought this on. In a nutshell, sometimes you have to say, "Excuse me. I like you but you may not treat me this way." No biggie, right? Not this time. I was accused of 'hating'. I laughed my ass off and gave some thought to why some suck more than others.
*Self-awareness* <= Important.
Anyway, speaking of self-awareness my blogs really are dumb as shit haha. That's okay.
Also, I want a tattoo of diatoms.
Don't hate.
<nerd laugh>
For real though, if everyone is 'hating' on you it most likely doesn't mean that you're justthatawesome...It just means that you probably suck.
Hard.
Need proof? Okie dokie:
I used to think I had haters. Then I did a little soul searching (really, just a little, this topic is not that deep) and realized that I was angry and sad. It was to the point that it was making my outsides less attractive too. I did a little spring cleaning (yoga, volunteering and a move) and ~surprise!~ you guessed it. No more 'haters'.
People aren't as petty as most might think (romantic warfare and teenagers excluded). Most people are glad to see others succeed. It gives them something pleasant to be a part of and something nice to look at. People like bright and shiny things. I think this might go back to hunter/gatherer times when the success and physical attributes of one group member meant increased advantages for the group. That could be a real thing or complete bull b.t.w. because it just entered my brain.
You're maybe wondering what brought this on. In a nutshell, sometimes you have to say, "Excuse me. I like you but you may not treat me this way." No biggie, right? Not this time. I was accused of 'hating'. I laughed my ass off and gave some thought to why some suck more than others.
*Self-awareness* <= Important.
Anyway, speaking of self-awareness my blogs really are dumb as shit haha. That's okay.
Also, I want a tattoo of diatoms.
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ron4164:
Very astute observation.
veganjihad:
Teenagers