Hi!!
So I've finally gotten things straightened out in my life.
And I must say - it wasn't the easiest of tasks. I had decisions to make that would affect the rest of my life - and for once, I thought things out clearly and did what had to be done. Some of it wasn't much fun - but it was all so worth it
Ok...so to sum up the last three months as briefly as possible...
As most of you know, my husband and I split up in May. We had a really, REALLY difficult year, and I felt the need to run from the aftermath and everything that reminded me of it - including my husband.
I met a guy right after I told my husband that we needed to seperate - I thought I liked him a lot. He seemed sweet and considerate. I was a mess emotionally and umm...shall we say, overlooked a few "red flags".
This was a big mistake.
Anyway - about 6 weeks into dating this new guy, I started to have some doubts about the decision I had made. The fact was, I still loved my husband and didn't feel like I had done everything I could to make the marriage work.
Karma stepped in, and this guy I was dating...well...let's say his mask started to slip and I found out that I had been spending a SHITLOAD of money on someone I believed to be innocently broke but trying really hard.
Yeah - not so much. Turns out dude is a hustler - literally. He was after the money the whole time and had lied to me about everything including his age.
It's so funny - I always considered myself fairly streetwise - but here in LA, the scumbags are major league.
ANYway - my husband and I started talking about our marriage, and we both realized that we hadn't given things much of a chance once the hard times passed. I decided that where I wanted to be was with him - he's my home base and I had missed him. A lot.
So we decided to reconcile.
In the meantime, I had this useless meatbag of a hustler living in my apartment - and I knew that if I wanted to retrieve my dignity and self respect, I would need to summon up my intestinal fortitude and put this guy out on the street.
So - I did. He tried every tactic he could come up with to make me change my mind - but I didn't.
Last I checked, he was sleeping in his car
Which is exactly what he deserves.
So now, I've moved back in with my husband, and we are working things out. We both know it's not going to be easy all the time..but it will be worth it
So - what about YOU guys? Any big decisions in your lives?
So I've finally gotten things straightened out in my life.
And I must say - it wasn't the easiest of tasks. I had decisions to make that would affect the rest of my life - and for once, I thought things out clearly and did what had to be done. Some of it wasn't much fun - but it was all so worth it
Ok...so to sum up the last three months as briefly as possible...
As most of you know, my husband and I split up in May. We had a really, REALLY difficult year, and I felt the need to run from the aftermath and everything that reminded me of it - including my husband.
I met a guy right after I told my husband that we needed to seperate - I thought I liked him a lot. He seemed sweet and considerate. I was a mess emotionally and umm...shall we say, overlooked a few "red flags".
This was a big mistake.
Anyway - about 6 weeks into dating this new guy, I started to have some doubts about the decision I had made. The fact was, I still loved my husband and didn't feel like I had done everything I could to make the marriage work.
Karma stepped in, and this guy I was dating...well...let's say his mask started to slip and I found out that I had been spending a SHITLOAD of money on someone I believed to be innocently broke but trying really hard.
Yeah - not so much. Turns out dude is a hustler - literally. He was after the money the whole time and had lied to me about everything including his age.
It's so funny - I always considered myself fairly streetwise - but here in LA, the scumbags are major league.
ANYway - my husband and I started talking about our marriage, and we both realized that we hadn't given things much of a chance once the hard times passed. I decided that where I wanted to be was with him - he's my home base and I had missed him. A lot.
So we decided to reconcile.
In the meantime, I had this useless meatbag of a hustler living in my apartment - and I knew that if I wanted to retrieve my dignity and self respect, I would need to summon up my intestinal fortitude and put this guy out on the street.
So - I did. He tried every tactic he could come up with to make me change my mind - but I didn't.
Last I checked, he was sleeping in his car
Which is exactly what he deserves.
So now, I've moved back in with my husband, and we are working things out. We both know it's not going to be easy all the time..but it will be worth it
So - what about YOU guys? Any big decisions in your lives?
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