Well I had an intresting week-end, I had some friends try to set me up with one of their "freinds", So the plan was to stay there for a few days, well the first night i got f.u.b.r.; and had alot of fun. Well over the course the weekend, i discovered that the girl liked someone else as well as me (so she claims). Well i didnt want to force her to make a decision, so i didnt the polite thing, laid my cards on the table, told her i liked her but i didnt want to force her to make a discision. I just wanted to know if she was intrested in me. well she dragged it along through the course of t he week-end, and gave me open ended answers. Well needless to say i dont know what her feeling were and it hurt, im not exactly sure why either.
Well here is my question to the general public. Its mainly for the ladies out there, but i guess it can go both ways. Ok well for the ladies, What do you look for in a guy?, be truthful, from a mental atteraction to the physical. And well i guess for the guys, what do you look for in a girl?
Well here is my question to the general public. Its mainly for the ladies out there, but i guess it can go both ways. Ok well for the ladies, What do you look for in a guy?, be truthful, from a mental atteraction to the physical. And well i guess for the guys, what do you look for in a girl?
hmmm... what do i look for in a guy?? i'll admit it... i'm a shallow bitch, when it comes to first impressions. not like the most popular girl in high school shallow, but i pretty much fit the description. when i meet someone & i think they are hot, i make note in my head... this dude/chick is hot as fuck. i must have him/her.
when i figure out whether i think a person is hot or not, then i move on to the "boyfriend" (since i don't usually have girlfriends, so to speak) criteria. dude better be nice... but then again, he better not be too nice. i like an asshole dude (to a point) sometimes. they better be so joking about their asshole tendencies, though!! intellegence is a good thing. i can hold a good conversation, so i expect my "other half" to as well. of course, a good sense of humor is a must. if dude can't make me laugh, then it can't happen, because i will make dude geek out at times. (i'm a stoner... of course, i am funny! )
but then, of course, there are the people that end up just being a "friend with benefits" or a "fuck buddy". lol. they're usually the ones that get the mental note: this dude/chick is hot as fuck. i must have him/her. mmm... well, as long as i can tolerate their personality, cuz a lot of super hot people have no brain.
sorry, i wrote a novel on your shit!
[Edited on Oct 13, 2004 5:05AM]