So this is a long over due blog but i decided now to write only because of what has happened recently lots have build up to this blog and questions have been answered that i've been wanting to know for a long time so here goes everyeone.
First thing is well my best friend was or idk what he is anymore lately he has been dating this girl who is for better much a horrible gf i mean sure when you meet someone you want to be with them all day and spend every waking moment with them but you would never forget about your friends and responsibilities. He has let the bill on our cell phone plan go up not once not twice but 3 times 300 dollar bill our bill is not suppose to even be anywhere near 200 and yet i don't get it he is not using the minutes he is not paying his end and it is adding up i've called him on several occasions asking him to let me know when he can't pay it but he can't pick up the fucking phone to even say hey paycheck is low can't put in my half or anything he won't even answer any of my calls till like a week later i don't even know what to do about that what should i do? Should i kick him off the plan? Even if i do he still has to come down and sign documents of me releasing him on his own.
The other thing is that i finally figured out why my girl acts the way she does well apparently her mom said she has a disability she has a hard time understanding simple things and she asked me if i could live with that for the rest of my life. I never saw it as a problem and i've noticed things that she has a hard time understanding when we get into fights and she doesn't know why she did things but i still care about her i mean why did her mom tell me that? Was it to scare me off or to actually want to know will i be there for her or run away cause other guys did she is a very beautiful girl and i never saw any disability in anyone as a problem so why would i now.
Now for the grand finally so work is just not getting any better i mean i get along with the people i want to get along with but seems like there are certain others who would rather piss me off so i almost got into a fight today because that lazy ass co worker that i've mentioned got in my face today worrying about my job instead of worrying about his job so i told him off to say out of my business and worry about his work so he got all mad and wanted to fight thinking he is a hard ass but i would destroy the kid so i don't know what his problem is but he will get the bitch ending he deserves if he keeps messing with me. I told my manager that he was harassing me only because i didn't want to start a fight at work i mean did i do the right thing by saying something i was about to punch the guy and i wasn't going to keep going around in circles with the kid.
Idk i'm going through a lot i need a vacation but i don't have good friends to hang out with except one but he is always busy idk what should i do?
First thing is well my best friend was or idk what he is anymore lately he has been dating this girl who is for better much a horrible gf i mean sure when you meet someone you want to be with them all day and spend every waking moment with them but you would never forget about your friends and responsibilities. He has let the bill on our cell phone plan go up not once not twice but 3 times 300 dollar bill our bill is not suppose to even be anywhere near 200 and yet i don't get it he is not using the minutes he is not paying his end and it is adding up i've called him on several occasions asking him to let me know when he can't pay it but he can't pick up the fucking phone to even say hey paycheck is low can't put in my half or anything he won't even answer any of my calls till like a week later i don't even know what to do about that what should i do? Should i kick him off the plan? Even if i do he still has to come down and sign documents of me releasing him on his own.
The other thing is that i finally figured out why my girl acts the way she does well apparently her mom said she has a disability she has a hard time understanding simple things and she asked me if i could live with that for the rest of my life. I never saw it as a problem and i've noticed things that she has a hard time understanding when we get into fights and she doesn't know why she did things but i still care about her i mean why did her mom tell me that? Was it to scare me off or to actually want to know will i be there for her or run away cause other guys did she is a very beautiful girl and i never saw any disability in anyone as a problem so why would i now.
Now for the grand finally so work is just not getting any better i mean i get along with the people i want to get along with but seems like there are certain others who would rather piss me off so i almost got into a fight today because that lazy ass co worker that i've mentioned got in my face today worrying about my job instead of worrying about his job so i told him off to say out of my business and worry about his work so he got all mad and wanted to fight thinking he is a hard ass but i would destroy the kid so i don't know what his problem is but he will get the bitch ending he deserves if he keeps messing with me. I told my manager that he was harassing me only because i didn't want to start a fight at work i mean did i do the right thing by saying something i was about to punch the guy and i wasn't going to keep going around in circles with the kid.
Idk i'm going through a lot i need a vacation but i don't have good friends to hang out with except one but he is always busy idk what should i do?
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As for the gf thing, that is kinda weird of her mom, but i think it was probably one the positive side. She was probably just trying to look out for her daughter n see if you really could handle it. She could of handled it differently tho...
And about the work situation i think you did the right thing, i mean it was either get in a fight with him eventually or tell your boss. You did what was right in order to preserve your job, which is important!
Im sorry things are so rough for you, its hard to have good advice when i feel down about things too at the moment...i guess just keep your head up n know that things will always get better.
Thanks for the comment on my blog too... i was really nervous to post those pics... your so sweet... have a good night, you deserve it!