So, I'm fucking pissed.
To give a little background, my wife and I have been married since the end of May 2008, our son arrived the beginning of January 2009. You don't need a math degree to do it here. He's an amazing little guy. Pure awesome dude. I wouldn't trade him for the world.
Since we've been together her ex-fiancee has always been an issue. Emotionally, she just can't let him go. Even though he treated her like crap, and she was the one that broke up with him. She wouldn't even send him an email telling him that we were getting married and having a baby, she avoided the whole subject with him, even though he repeatedly called her from active duty in Iraq.
A couple of months ago she even sent him a friend request on FB, which he accepted. She told me later that he was the one that sent it to her, total bullshit. I have to admit, I checked her updates that said "X" accepted your friend request. Yes, it's shitty that I checked, but she has all of my passwords (except SG), and I have hers. She likes that we're "open" about everything.....Honestly, I just checked to prove myself right. I never said anything to her. Never mentioned it at all.
I've had some big issues with drinking lately. She has issues with smoking pot. Mentally, she can't seem to get to sleep at night without it. I've been good lately about not drinking at all the last couple of weeks.
Since the boy has been here she's had lots of issues with sex. Post-partum depression. meds. constant fatigue. We had sex last week, because she was restless, it was late at night and she thought it may help her get to sleep. Before that it was the beginning of December. Before that, it was 2 months. Before that, I don't even know...
Anyway, tonight, she meets some friends from her dance company for dinner and is home around 10. She decides to smoke a little. I have a couple of beers. We watch TV for a while and go to bed. We start kissing, and I roll on top, just to keep kissing her. Not to fuck or anything, because I know that she won't do it, no matter how much I beg her. She tells me no, she's not in the mood I tell her that I just wanted to kiss her and roll off and make some joke,
She proceeds to make a joke and call me "Mr. X" - "X" being her ex's last name.
I get pissed, she apologizes repeatedly and profusely, then passes out. Now I'm downstairs blogging and she's sleeping. I now get the idea why she doesn't want me anymore. It's because she wants him, not me. She gives me every excuse in the book for not making love to me, but now, tonight, calling me "X", I'm totally pissed.
I'm not quite sure what to do right now.....
To give a little background, my wife and I have been married since the end of May 2008, our son arrived the beginning of January 2009. You don't need a math degree to do it here. He's an amazing little guy. Pure awesome dude. I wouldn't trade him for the world.
Since we've been together her ex-fiancee has always been an issue. Emotionally, she just can't let him go. Even though he treated her like crap, and she was the one that broke up with him. She wouldn't even send him an email telling him that we were getting married and having a baby, she avoided the whole subject with him, even though he repeatedly called her from active duty in Iraq.
A couple of months ago she even sent him a friend request on FB, which he accepted. She told me later that he was the one that sent it to her, total bullshit. I have to admit, I checked her updates that said "X" accepted your friend request. Yes, it's shitty that I checked, but she has all of my passwords (except SG), and I have hers. She likes that we're "open" about everything.....Honestly, I just checked to prove myself right. I never said anything to her. Never mentioned it at all.
I've had some big issues with drinking lately. She has issues with smoking pot. Mentally, she can't seem to get to sleep at night without it. I've been good lately about not drinking at all the last couple of weeks.
Since the boy has been here she's had lots of issues with sex. Post-partum depression. meds. constant fatigue. We had sex last week, because she was restless, it was late at night and she thought it may help her get to sleep. Before that it was the beginning of December. Before that, it was 2 months. Before that, I don't even know...
Anyway, tonight, she meets some friends from her dance company for dinner and is home around 10. She decides to smoke a little. I have a couple of beers. We watch TV for a while and go to bed. We start kissing, and I roll on top, just to keep kissing her. Not to fuck or anything, because I know that she won't do it, no matter how much I beg her. She tells me no, she's not in the mood I tell her that I just wanted to kiss her and roll off and make some joke,
She proceeds to make a joke and call me "Mr. X" - "X" being her ex's last name.
I get pissed, she apologizes repeatedly and profusely, then passes out. Now I'm downstairs blogging and she's sleeping. I now get the idea why she doesn't want me anymore. It's because she wants him, not me. She gives me every excuse in the book for not making love to me, but now, tonight, calling me "X", I'm totally pissed.
I'm not quite sure what to do right now.....
heartbaker:
Wow..... I'd confront here