Have you ever noticed that sometimes kids act batter then the grown ups? lol seriously...
Why can't two people either be nice to one another or avoid one another when it comes to a loss in the family.
Why must there always be drama? Okay.. here is the story.. My Uncle and Aunt got divorced almost 3 years ago. My Uncle has a very bad temper and he would beat my Aunt.. The kids whitnessed it themselves.. My Aunt was awarded custody of the kids.. but something happened to her that made her have a nervous break down and the court awarded the kids to my Uncle... He then proceded to tell the kids that their mother didn't want them and wouldn't allow them to have anything to do with her. I do understand however that there are woman out there who don't want their kids but in this case that wasn't ture.. She got herself better and tried to fight for her kids but before anything could happen their eldest son Jeremy was killed in a wreck. That was almost two years ago. Now they are going thru this again.. Alan was killed in a wreck on the 24th. The Drama in the hospital was unreal both times... instead of the focas being on their own children they were fighting about everything.. His new girlfriend and Her new boyfriend... make'n comments like "I'm the mother... she's the fucker" and just going at each other.. Mean while the kids that they have left are have'n to deal with the loss of their sibling on their own. I have never seen or felt so much hate in someone as I do in my Uncle. I understand he has lost his only sons.. but he was like this before this happened... this just made it worse...
Can someone with that much hate and rage ever find peace?
Why can't two people either be nice to one another or avoid one another when it comes to a loss in the family.
Why must there always be drama? Okay.. here is the story.. My Uncle and Aunt got divorced almost 3 years ago. My Uncle has a very bad temper and he would beat my Aunt.. The kids whitnessed it themselves.. My Aunt was awarded custody of the kids.. but something happened to her that made her have a nervous break down and the court awarded the kids to my Uncle... He then proceded to tell the kids that their mother didn't want them and wouldn't allow them to have anything to do with her. I do understand however that there are woman out there who don't want their kids but in this case that wasn't ture.. She got herself better and tried to fight for her kids but before anything could happen their eldest son Jeremy was killed in a wreck. That was almost two years ago. Now they are going thru this again.. Alan was killed in a wreck on the 24th. The Drama in the hospital was unreal both times... instead of the focas being on their own children they were fighting about everything.. His new girlfriend and Her new boyfriend... make'n comments like "I'm the mother... she's the fucker" and just going at each other.. Mean while the kids that they have left are have'n to deal with the loss of their sibling on their own. I have never seen or felt so much hate in someone as I do in my Uncle. I understand he has lost his only sons.. but he was like this before this happened... this just made it worse...
Can someone with that much hate and rage ever find peace?
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polymer_boy:
It's very sad when kids have to see parents fighting, and behaving like animals, not humans. It's very sad what happened to them... when you hear about such tragedies, there's nothing you can say...
racheljane:
what a pity! i would hope that they could at least be civil to one another, considering they are both going thru the same horrible situation..