lusean

Well it's almost Thanksgiving. The holidays are always a bit of a hassle. Don't get me wrong I love to see my family but since I have been married there is just no way to please everyone. Either we go to my family shindig or we go to hers. We both are from San Francisco & my family is very large so doing a one big family thing just wont work. The other option is we try to see both, but then we end up running around all day and it sucks. Or we go to her family thing and my Family misses me, Or we go to my family thing and her family misses her.. There just doesn't seen to be any way to make everyone happy. The last two years we have gone to my Wife's family holiday stuff & it has been fun her family is really cool. So I said to her the other day that next year we will have to go over to my family & she got upset. WTF!

She said she is not use to not seeing her family around the holidays & I am because I was in the Army and was away for years and I use to live in another country for a few years after that. But fuck that I am home now and it just doesn't seem fair that we only do her family shit. Then she said I could go by myself and see my fam. So I am suppose to leave my wife & 1 year old daughter and go off by myself to see my family? I kept my cool because I don't want to fight right before Thanksgiving and have it be all weird at her Mom & Dad's house. But we are due for a serious talk on this subject this weekend. I just hope we can work something out and not just fight.

Well I know this seems like a bunch of whining crap but I just needed to let it out.

Hope everyone has a happy THANKSGIVING out there in SG land.

For the record here is my beautiful Wife & daughter.