wife called again....notice a pattern yet? she says it's too much disruption for us to have sara live with each of us for 6 mos. and she should come live with her and they'll visit on importent days. i am in hell. i can't make anyone happy anymore. i am trying to stay the couse, but it's really hard. if i tell her she has anger issues, she will shatter and any relationship we have is gone, and sara will suffer. she told me that i wasn't romantic enough when we were married. i didn't cook for her, and we didn't go out enough. that's tough to do if you don't let me know, i've told her i'm a little dense in that area. but "i should have known"....yep, i'm supposed to read her mind. 
Please get it. I really think you would be a better parent!