i'm gonna' fight. i've made up my mind that i have no idea what my wife is capable of. she moves in and starts dating the best man from our wedding 2 weeks after she leaves? and i'm to believe she won't pursue child support and will let her come down here?!? i think not. i'm going to a lawer tommarrow to file child abandonment and divorce papers. i may not be able to file any blogs after the next couple of weeks, but i'll try for those of you that care. wish me luck....i'll need it. 
I think that you should not post anything for a while because it can be used against you.
But she did abandon the child.
Please get a lawyer. In the long run it will be worth it!