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Since my brain is not that active by itself, sometimes I need that somebody that matters to me to say something to make me think - what, by the way, shows how much genetic material my parents wasted making my brain.

How much matters to you the age, social position, height/weight, color/ethenicity/racial background of your partner/lover/love, and what people think of you when you're together?...
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fisticuffs:

How much matters to you the age, social position, height/weight, color/ethenicity/racial background of your partner/lover/love, and what people think of you when you're together? I mean, not the drive-through, fast-food answers, but what you REALLY feel and think about this?



Age: I prefer older, just because I find guys that are younger or my age are way to fucking immature for me. Take asreal, for example, he's four years older than me. I do agree with them needing to keep up with me.

Social Position: Hmmm... you know, I don't think it has to do with a job so much, but rather, their education level. I even wouldn't mind if I worked and my husband would be a stay at home dad. I don't think it is fair for a girl to sacrifice a good job or good schooling because she wants to be "less" than the guy.

And believe me, my sister is like this... she's postponing her graduation because she wants her bf to graduate first from University. It's a big status thing.... I think it's stupid.

Height/Weight: It really depends how the guy handles it. Height and weight don't really matter to me, but if he's going to be short and have small man syndrome (trying to be tougher or an asshole to make him a 'bigger man') or he's always self conscious about his weight, then I don't like it. The shortest guy I have dated is 5'7"... and he was an ass.

The tallest I have dated is 6'2", which is a foot taller than me. Kinda makes kissing funny. tongue

But it is good when someone takes care of themselves. It's a good turn-on when someone looks good because they eat healthy and work out too. It's awesome to have an ACTIVE boy wink

BUT then again, if it is too extreme (which Mr. Shortman was) -- then it is HORRIBLE. Going to the gym 4-5 days a week, eating protein bars and shaving arm and chest hair to look bigger...
puke

Ethnicity: It really really doesn't matter to me. I've never dated an asian. I've dated all sorts of backgrounds of white guys though- German, Russian, Swiss, Ukranian, and Irish/Scottish. I've had crushes on basically every race-- even asian, believe it or not.

I think it mostly depends on how family reacts to it. At first, one of my bf's dads didnt like me because I wasn't white. But whatever. He got to know me and then he REALLY liked me.

What I don't like is when people just like someone BECAUSE of their race. So watch it Mr. Logan. Or you'll get in trouble.

One time this guy wanted to date me because I was asian... he thought I would be the typical asian girl, and BOY was he WRONG. He's such an asshole. I swear if I EVER see him again, I will kick his ass. HARD.



What do people think when asreal and I are together? His friends think we're cute, My friends say that he's a good match for me, and when we are out and about just walking around, no one doesnt say anything. I think interracial dating is common in Calgary.

Just wait til we go out to the Maritimes.. where there are NO asians... hahahah it will be interesting.

Actually, when I went to BC last summer with a previous bf, I did notice some weird looks because the only asians out there were Exchange Students.. oh well.


Hope that answers all your questions. biggrin WHEW.

[Edited on Apr 01, 2005 9:59AM]

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Nice weekend.

Geez, sometimes my life sucks.

Ok, let me see... Friday I went to College St. to see the parede. It was crauded with smelly people and for my mood the must interesting thing there was the donkeies and horses. I prefered rather spent my time riding the bike with my friend, been a boy again. Back home, I spent the evening watching some...
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saya:
sorry your weekend wasn't so great....

but I'm glad you think parts of me are sexy! wink
fisticuffs:
when i said out east, i meant New Brunswick, PEI and Nova Scotia.

Sowwie! frown
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Today, I need someone's lap to lay down my head and sleep dreamless.

My oldest sister died last saturday and got bury yesterday, and just today I learn that.

Somehow, after all that she did, she got my father and my older sister to mouning her. I think that it says more about the caracter of both of them than about my sister. Nevertheless, I...
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wolfmystique:
wow babe, I wish I could be you lap. I hope you can find your own way of dealing with it. kiss kiss kiss
coco:
it's lady luck on a rocket in space. smile
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Yesterday was my best friend's party - I organized it.

I don't know why I left to the last moment to do it, but I just started to make the call monday. Just the closest buddies, what leave it to just 7 people, including me.
But it couldn't be so simple, so I decided make it as a surprise party... what a bad idea.
Usually,...
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saya:
look at your favorites... you're a fan of the asians, huh?

Someone's got yellow fever.

Someone's a rice chaser!

wink
valentina:
O brasil tem varias sg wink Entra no nosso grupo
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Six times - this is exactly how many times I tryied to go to snowboar and I couldn't for some reason.
But today it changed.
I went to Blue Montain, ON, and got a wonderful time collecting bruises all over my body. I went five times to the beginners track, where I opened my wrist in the very first time that I tryied to ride....
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saya:
Hey- smile

Good ideas!

I'm a writer/designer, there's just an enormous meeting tomorrow and work continues up to the last possible minute.

biggrin tongue
saya:
biggrin kiss

that's cool. I like your list...
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Do you know what? I really can say I got a nice weekend!
Thursday I went to the "Tonic", a night club in Peter St and Richmond Rd. I got there at 23:45hs, and spent the next hour freezing outside the club, in the line, and watching a fight betwen the bouncer and a Brazilian guy, because the girl of the guy cut the line...
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obiwanknieval:
I saw the resemblance after you mentioned it .
caramelhunnii:
hehe ...my ass says thank you.

ooo aaa kiss
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Please, somebody give me the manual for my life!

There is something terrible odd about my life and part of it is the sensation of been watch myself living, instead properly live my life. I is like Linkin Park had wrote "In the end" to talk about my life. Some day of my live just aren't worth of been lived.
Does even matter how hard...
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fisticuffs:
that's great that you'd be travelling this summer, but I won't be here in Calgary this summer smile

There are a lot of SG people in Toronto though.
wolfmystique:
well im in the process of finding a waitressing job for the summer yuck. My whole shpeal was to tell you I have many more years of grunt work before i reach my destination. Im such a babbler.
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Hello, my dear, beautiful, smart and good witted friends!

Here I am, for another session of grammatical and miswriting torture!
Apparently, I still falling short before an work balance. I can explain: if I'm not unemploied, I'm killing myself with too much work. After more than a month unemploied, I resume both my old jobs, starting to work 16 hours a day.
It is not...
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Hello, my dear readers!

Like I told before, I went to a medical research (or study, as you preferer) this sunday and monday. Nothing so honorable as the desire of helps the medicine to advance; I have very economical interest in this study.
I guess someone can say that I'm taking a not so ethical way to make money, but I really don't care. I've...
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HELLO!

There is quite a long while since I last update this journal, but the truth is that there is not so much things going on my life.
The principal thing is: I have to, I MUST to find a work. Not just because the money, but also because I getting crazy inside home. It is not like be in vacations (specially because I have...
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