I think that everybody already got a situation like this: you're chating with friend, or to some specific friend, and this person say something, without the slightest wickedness, that hit you like a burning-red dagger in the center of your eye. And you feel compeled to reply something, you need desesperadly make it understand your point... what?!? Am I the only one????
Ok, I'll take the burden.
A friend of mine was just right when she talked about her short ex-bf and his complex of "short-man". She is danm right about this, but what that means?
If you ever saw a guy like me (now I'm 5'4", but I was a lot smaller before, trust me) in the school, you know what hapens to short guys. But, if he ever show a little more interest in the classes, a little more skills in any subject (or even worse, in more than one) and got the label "nerd", oh, poor bastard!
Well, since everybody has a choice, the choices of a nerd are: been beaten up in regular basis, disguise its skills, ask for adult's help or be tough enough to hit back. As you can see, I'm not doing any valuation - I'm just ranking the possible answer to this problem.
It comes that in my case, somehow I got the nerve to hit back, and in my despere and fear, I decided that I had to hit hard enough to descorage any other try. By chance I did make it, and after I just had to keep the "bad-boy" mask on, keep the attitude, the hard looking, and it was all-right... but I had to be hard enough to keep up with my caracter, under the risk of everything fall apart.
So, that's how it started to me, my little-cute-bad-boy-short-guy complex. It hurted me realize how other people see this attitude but at same time it was a worning for me. Thanks, my friend, I'll take your complain for me, as a constructive criticism.
About the Asian thing: I gotcha. But it still been just the kind of people that I prefere, not specificly because they're Asian, but because the appearance, kind of body, maners, even smell of Asian girls happened to be attractive for me. And not every Asian girl, by the way. Again, thanks for your warning, I'll watch out!
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Just to complement what I said yesterday: I have absolutly nothing against whores. I do belive that most of the times, it cost a loooooot less pay for sex, in more than one way, than try to have it for free. I also belive that it is a perfectly normal profession (no offense meant against any beliving in other way, but it is MY opinion), and not a easy one.
XOXO,
LA
Ok, I'll take the burden.
A friend of mine was just right when she talked about her short ex-bf and his complex of "short-man". She is danm right about this, but what that means?
If you ever saw a guy like me (now I'm 5'4", but I was a lot smaller before, trust me) in the school, you know what hapens to short guys. But, if he ever show a little more interest in the classes, a little more skills in any subject (or even worse, in more than one) and got the label "nerd", oh, poor bastard!
Well, since everybody has a choice, the choices of a nerd are: been beaten up in regular basis, disguise its skills, ask for adult's help or be tough enough to hit back. As you can see, I'm not doing any valuation - I'm just ranking the possible answer to this problem.
It comes that in my case, somehow I got the nerve to hit back, and in my despere and fear, I decided that I had to hit hard enough to descorage any other try. By chance I did make it, and after I just had to keep the "bad-boy" mask on, keep the attitude, the hard looking, and it was all-right... but I had to be hard enough to keep up with my caracter, under the risk of everything fall apart.
So, that's how it started to me, my little-cute-bad-boy-short-guy complex. It hurted me realize how other people see this attitude but at same time it was a worning for me. Thanks, my friend, I'll take your complain for me, as a constructive criticism.
About the Asian thing: I gotcha. But it still been just the kind of people that I prefere, not specificly because they're Asian, but because the appearance, kind of body, maners, even smell of Asian girls happened to be attractive for me. And not every Asian girl, by the way. Again, thanks for your warning, I'll watch out!
???*^*???
Just to complement what I said yesterday: I have absolutly nothing against whores. I do belive that most of the times, it cost a loooooot less pay for sex, in more than one way, than try to have it for free. I also belive that it is a perfectly normal profession (no offense meant against any beliving in other way, but it is MY opinion), and not a easy one.
XOXO,
LA
my comment before was mostly about how people carry themselves as they are. it's about being confidence, not being tall.
and what i said was just ONE view, and it's my personal preference. i'm sure there are girls who like the short guys too.
so suck it up.