Just a little follow up on my nice guys vs. asshole theory...
Yes, it seems that women want an asshole and that if you act like a dick they will surely swoon all over you... lol.. I agree with the "nice guys lack confidence" comment..
I think that women hit a certain point in their life, when they realize they have developed a bad habit.. and that bad habit is the asshole.. Finally, they realize that nice guys are the "new pink" and go chasing after them.. Except a nice guy normally doesn't know how to handle an aggressive woman going after them.. So this is my advice to the nice guy... Either stand up proud and tall and go talk to your heart's desire... Or sit back, relax, and eventually she'll come to you. The best quality of the nice guy is he is patient..
Okay off on a tangent.. lol In response to the "friends I wouldn't date comment"
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Yes, it seems that women want an asshole and that if you act like a dick they will surely swoon all over you... lol.. I agree with the "nice guys lack confidence" comment..
I think that women hit a certain point in their life, when they realize they have developed a bad habit.. and that bad habit is the asshole.. Finally, they realize that nice guys are the "new pink" and go chasing after them.. Except a nice guy normally doesn't know how to handle an aggressive woman going after them.. So this is my advice to the nice guy... Either stand up proud and tall and go talk to your heart's desire... Or sit back, relax, and eventually she'll come to you. The best quality of the nice guy is he is patient..
Okay off on a tangent.. lol In response to the "friends I wouldn't date comment"
Visit http://www.laddertheory.com
Actually everyone go visit this site... It's uber funny and I'm a firm believer..
I'm still gunna have to say if the nice guy waits too long he is never going to get what he wants. Just going to throw out some personal experience: I liked this girl but because she was a bit different than the kinds of girls I usually find myself attracted to (she looks like a SG, and I really only had experience with the "Paris Hilton" type) so I knew the whole flowers and an offer to a nice dinner wasn't gunna work. Needless to say we hung out but I was clueless about how to act....few "dates" later and I'm firmly in the friend zone. Needless to say I have learned my lesson and will never let that happen again.
"The new pink"...I lol'd
But I find the aggressive woman the perfect complement to the nice guy. My ex was a stripper and she just came up to me at the gym and introduced herself by saying "you look delicious"..I was hooked right there, caught me totally off guard and I thought it was the hottest thing a girl ever said.
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