littlelolita

so my ex boyfriend decided that he still wants to see me until he leaves for australia for three months, but he still wants his freedom....so i've tried dealing with some sort of new relationship but now we are not dating, but we are more than friends, and everytime i'm with him it's nice, but then when i wake up the next morning i feel even more alone..so i think whatever we have become is destroying me and i think i need to not see him at all. but when i tell him this, he tells me that hearing that makes him want me more, and he tells me he's just going to try to see me anyway...can someone from a third party perspective try to explain to me why he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too?!!!