I have some bad news. 
Well, not entirely not entirely bad. More like angry news
As far as I'm concerned my sister is no longer apart of my life anymore. She drew the final straw a long time ago but this time I think I have the support of my family (FINALLY!!) at least somewhat.
So I'll give you the long and short of it. My sister got pregnant and came back to my parent's house. So they fell for it and let her live with them for about a week and a half. Just like I told them she would she fucked them over yet again. She got an abortion then a couple days later went up to see her asshole boyfriend that got her pregnant and fucked him. For those of you who don't know you're not supposed to have sex after having an abortion because it increasing the risk of infection as well as increases the chance of getting pregnant. The major thing with the infection is that when they do the opperation they have to cut open the cervix, this can lead to some major infectious problems. I know that was gross and probably more than you wanted to hear but, oh well.
So the other day my dad hacked into her computer and found out that she had been lying to them the entire time. She had taked their car and gone out to she this guy. She even talked about how stupid they were and how they had no idea what she was up to. So they finally took her to a hotel and kicked her out of their house. They just gave her $60 to put her up in a hotel for one night and said goodbye.
I don't want to say I told you so to my parents so I won't but I did tell them. I screamed in their faces the day they told me she was coming back. I screamed and told them they were being stupid. I cried and told them she was just going to do it again. They didn't believe me and told me I couldn't possibly understand. But I do understand. I got pregnant January 04. I'm just as much of a parent as they are. I however did not have my baby. I was too young, too unprepared, and too scared. I had an abortion. I made a choice as a parent. I made a choice to cut things off with my child because I knew it would be better in the long run. No matter how hard that decision was for me I made it as a mother. I was pissed when they told me I couldn't understand. Just because you love your child unconditionally doesn't mean you have to fund them finacially the way the did with her. You can love something and still let it go. I loved that baby that was growing inside me but I knew it couldn't have the life I wanted to give it by doing things this way.
I hope and pray that this time they'll listen to me if she calls them claiming to be in trouble. She just uses people and spits them out like old gum. She lied to me one too many times. I'm getting married to the man that I love in three months and if she shows up for any reason I have at least 5 people that will escort her out of the wedding by force if necessary. I never wanted to say that about my own sister but as far as I'm concerned I only have one sister anymore. Her name is Jenny and she is the best sister I've ever had.
I just got off the phone with her. Talking to her made me feel so much better because she understood exactly what I was going through. She told me some of the best advice ever. I love that woman. She is the strongest woman I have ever made.
Anyway, hope all is well with you guys
Well, not entirely not entirely bad. More like angry news
As far as I'm concerned my sister is no longer apart of my life anymore. She drew the final straw a long time ago but this time I think I have the support of my family (FINALLY!!) at least somewhat.
So I'll give you the long and short of it. My sister got pregnant and came back to my parent's house. So they fell for it and let her live with them for about a week and a half. Just like I told them she would she fucked them over yet again. She got an abortion then a couple days later went up to see her asshole boyfriend that got her pregnant and fucked him. For those of you who don't know you're not supposed to have sex after having an abortion because it increasing the risk of infection as well as increases the chance of getting pregnant. The major thing with the infection is that when they do the opperation they have to cut open the cervix, this can lead to some major infectious problems. I know that was gross and probably more than you wanted to hear but, oh well.
So the other day my dad hacked into her computer and found out that she had been lying to them the entire time. She had taked their car and gone out to she this guy. She even talked about how stupid they were and how they had no idea what she was up to. So they finally took her to a hotel and kicked her out of their house. They just gave her $60 to put her up in a hotel for one night and said goodbye.
I don't want to say I told you so to my parents so I won't but I did tell them. I screamed in their faces the day they told me she was coming back. I screamed and told them they were being stupid. I cried and told them she was just going to do it again. They didn't believe me and told me I couldn't possibly understand. But I do understand. I got pregnant January 04. I'm just as much of a parent as they are. I however did not have my baby. I was too young, too unprepared, and too scared. I had an abortion. I made a choice as a parent. I made a choice to cut things off with my child because I knew it would be better in the long run. No matter how hard that decision was for me I made it as a mother. I was pissed when they told me I couldn't understand. Just because you love your child unconditionally doesn't mean you have to fund them finacially the way the did with her. You can love something and still let it go. I loved that baby that was growing inside me but I knew it couldn't have the life I wanted to give it by doing things this way.
I hope and pray that this time they'll listen to me if she calls them claiming to be in trouble. She just uses people and spits them out like old gum. She lied to me one too many times. I'm getting married to the man that I love in three months and if she shows up for any reason I have at least 5 people that will escort her out of the wedding by force if necessary. I never wanted to say that about my own sister but as far as I'm concerned I only have one sister anymore. Her name is Jenny and she is the best sister I've ever had.
I just got off the phone with her. Talking to her made me feel so much better because she understood exactly what I was going through. She told me some of the best advice ever. I love that woman. She is the strongest woman I have ever made.
Anyway, hope all is well with you guys
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