alright, so i need everyone's opinion:
as several of you know, my ex and i have a long history and have gone from friends to together to friends to moved in together and we broke up a little over a month ago, which was one of the best decisions i think. after we broke up we had a big talk about staying friends and everything, which i really truly wanted to do. then he started doing hurtful things, so i decided that staying away form each other would probably be the best idea. about a week ago he started to text and call me. then he called me at work today. i really truly do not want to talk to him right now and truthfully i think he needs some time to sort his stuff out.
so he's my question: should i email him requesting that we not talk or anything for a while until i feel like we can truly be friends (if that ever happens) or do i just start ignoring him?
as several of you know, my ex and i have a long history and have gone from friends to together to friends to moved in together and we broke up a little over a month ago, which was one of the best decisions i think. after we broke up we had a big talk about staying friends and everything, which i really truly wanted to do. then he started doing hurtful things, so i decided that staying away form each other would probably be the best idea. about a week ago he started to text and call me. then he called me at work today. i really truly do not want to talk to him right now and truthfully i think he needs some time to sort his stuff out.
so he's my question: should i email him requesting that we not talk or anything for a while until i feel like we can truly be friends (if that ever happens) or do i just start ignoring him?
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anyway i fell in love with an australian girl less then a year ago so the ozzie girl has a good point... its hard to draw a line in the sand when the waves keep coming in. either way you cant win or loose its all a draw and its all up to him. good lucj
well im glad you are easily convinced i will have to convince you to go to dinner with me sometime soon then