It feels strange listing green flags in (romantic) relationships, because I’m always feeling like I’m constantly figuring it out. But a few green flags are definitely:
1) not saying anything too negative about past relationships. Everyone’s dated an asshole, but I found people who are fixated on how their exes treated them tend to be real problems themselves
2) common sense of humor! Humor is such an important part of my personality that if my sense of humor doesn’t mesh with someone else’s there’s almost nothing to talk about
3) how they treat people in the service industry. Having worked in the food/ bartending industry for a few years, you can tell a lot about a person by how they treat their servers/ bartenders. Anyone who treats people in the industry as though they’re “below” them are typically total trash themselves.
4) never hurts to have chemistry! Both in communication and sexually. It sucks, but sometimes I find I really like a person but just don’t feel super into them sexually, which can just kill the whole relationship.
These are just a few of mine I thought of, how about everyone else?
Thanks to @rambo and @missy for another excellent topic! This one was sort of a thinker for me. And thanks to @carolinehellcat for the AMAZING photo!!
