so im having boy troubles. have been for a few days, feeling ok today about things though. was a tough wkend. to make things worse ive been woken up today by 10 text messages from supposedly one of my best girlfriends abusing me cause i didnt go out with her sat night as i chose to stay in a sort shit out with my boy. im so hurt. shes being so nasty! calling me stupid and she doesnt stand by me, im making the wrong choice. sure, she can feel that way, but show me some FUCKING SENSITIVITY!!!!! its not easy just to leave. esp when the grounds on which its over isnt that bad, its just something i dont want in our relationship. weed. its not about cheating, nothing.
i think i hit a soft spot with her cause she does EVEYTHING her guy says. i cant live that way, there are things i want. a relationship is meant to be about compromise isnt it?
sometimes people really suck. i wish i didnt care so much
to add to this i finally opened up to her about my depression flare ups i can get and had last week. she told me to fuck off, said i was playing the victim and that im a mental case. do you know how hurtful it is to have someone call you a mental case when you actually have depression??? im so fucking disgusted in that comment
i think i hit a soft spot with her cause she does EVEYTHING her guy says. i cant live that way, there are things i want. a relationship is meant to be about compromise isnt it?
sometimes people really suck. i wish i didnt care so much
to add to this i finally opened up to her about my depression flare ups i can get and had last week. she told me to fuck off, said i was playing the victim and that im a mental case. do you know how hurtful it is to have someone call you a mental case when you actually have depression??? im so fucking disgusted in that comment
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Don't let one ign'ant friend get to ya.
btw, this is a pitcher:
now my turn at this:
1st.. things will work out i promise
2nd.. the weed thing is only a problem if ya make it one, the way i handle it with my family is I say..
" i went thru the same thing, i think that everyone in thier youth goes thru Lucid experimentation.. but after smoking for a while i saw that it was rut that didn't work for me and that i would only smoke it like once every 3 months.. just to enjoy it and not get tired of it. I struck a balance, it's my life and my body, so it became a thing about "Choice", as soon as i chose , i made the change or transformation... and never looked back.. it felt good to try something else that would work for me." and then end the discussion right there.. give him time to think about it. it's alll about "Choices" and living as one sees fit , in one's life!
3rd..there are tons of guys that would love to go out with ya and be the one for ya.. trust me on this.
4th.. your friend is callous , but she means well.. just tell her hey that wasn't cool, on her comment.. how about listening and suggesting solutions.. communication. that's whay she is your freind- to confide in , whether they agree or not!
5th I say it will all turn out and you should concentrate on bigger and brighter things.. that make ya happy and inspire you !!
take care
Ish369