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Today children wer are going to discuss the nature of conjoint emotions. Did someone never tell you this?that emotions are actually conjoint...they never told me either,...it has taken me 30 years to learn this. The longest i have ever taken to learn a lesson. (apart from not peeing on the toiet seat...some tuimes after a great night out,..afew drinks..a little stumbly...It happens only rarely, and i do clean up.)
Many People think that the spectrum of emotion has love on one side, and hate on the other. This is not true. I believe that on one side is happiness and on the other is saddness. You should write this down.
happiness-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------saddness.
At the center of this spectrum is indifference.
happiness----------------------------------------indiffernece-------------------------------------------------------saddness.
To the very left of center is love. To the right of center is hate.
happiness................................................love,indifference,hate...............................................................saddness
Indifference being the center means that it is equal to zero. It is what is refered to as the origin. That is why when people are indifferent, they are always indifferent in a mildly amused away,or a mildly agigitate way. If a person was trully indifferent, they would be inanimate.
If you think of emotion in this way it makes sense. That is why two people who really love each other in the beginning, can be so vicious to each other in the end. Love is only seperated from hate by a strip of indifference that is as wide as one of my dick hairs. Be careful with who you love, just a tad of indifference and they could be the one you hate...love/hate are virtually neighbours. By proxy perhaps look carefully at what you hate...you may find it actually something not worth hating ,lest one day you now love it. I once said at 8 years old i hate avocado's...my how the story has changed now...a decade of indiffence to them, then one day in a sandwhich i inquired to the near magical quality that it contained...it was the avo...it just needed the salt and lemon and i was there.
Also major emotions always walk hand in hand with more major emotions. They never are on their own. For instance envy walks with desire. i believe,but am not totally certain that jealously walks with lust....hope walks with uncertainity and fear walks with ignorance....and the biggy that everyone always wants to know...love walks with insecurity....and to round it out....bliss funnily enough also walks with ignorance when fear is not round.
What have we learnt here...ignorance is the promiscious emotion....so when ever you do get those blissfull moments, enjoy them...revel in them..but be mindful is you revel to long, that ignorance is not far behind. Take time to smell the roses,..but remeber just the same as the world doesn't stop turning when your packing a sad and having a sulk, it also doesn't stop if you choose to smell the roses.
What we have also learnt is that major 'I feel' emotions are also connected to minor "cognective thought' emotions. We feel love,fear,jealously,envy,bliss..but we cognectively think deire,lust,insecurity..these are thoughts that almost have a voice...the 'ifeel' emotions are just senses of bodily feeling...almost like a warmth..or a chill..an experience...they have no voice, so to speak.
Ever notice how the partners you have had that you have loved the most and said they love you the most are also the sameones that probably feared losing you to infidelity..or some other circumstance...that when you feared something and just kept silent and try not to acknowledge it and it built and built and that you know hoped it would just go away...and that hope inturns fuels uncertainity that it will...and it builts again....until finally one day it all spills out, and once you talk about it and state it out loud, that you find you actually had nothing to be afraid of in the first place...that your fear brought ignornace, which causes a blockage that hope now gets jammed up in it...and where ever hope is..so is uncertainity...And if the origina lfear was about someone you love..notice how you insecure about them now...notice how also love is envolved now...notice also how fear brought ignorance....you've got one foot in indifference already.....next thing you know you are now darth vader shooting ewoks.
However children, if you are reading this...that means we are all friends,..i do also bring some advice to help remedy the situations that can sometimes happen with emotions walking hand in hand. When living life...ask yourself this question..if i was to speak about any part of my life right now in an open room full of strangers,...would i feel ashamed in anyway? and if so...address the things that you feel ashamed about..am i living openly and honestly?...and do i have things about myself that i should change? you will know what these things are if you were to speak to a room full of strangers about every aspect of your life.
example:
I am crrently at a fantastic job that was once great for me to have, but its now time for me to move on, and i haven't out of inertia.
I love the girl I am with...and i believe she cares for me too...but she treats me like shit sometimes...the worst i have ever been treated...i know she really should have blown her chances with me by now,..i simply believe i deserve better..i should let my head do the thinking...but my heart is instead with her.
I love my friends,but am pretty certain i don't see them as much as i should.
If i had to drive you to the hospital to save your life...you would die on the way there..i am the worlds worst driver..to the point i don't drive..so i can live.
I noticed awhile ago one day when drying myself i saw a part of my scalp...next time i was hair dressers i ask if i was going bald...she said yes. I said shit..i will be the first in my family...she gave me special shampoo's and conditioners..i used them..they seem to work. My folicals seem to get calcium deposits that make the hair break off as soon as it grows. Ihave to use the outrageously over priced product for the rest of my life if i don't want to lose..i will simply play what they charge.
I have never been unfaithful. I have only assisted two people in being unfaithful to their partners. It made me feel terrible, tot he point with one of them i just couldn't keep my hard on...kept thinking the boyfriend would arrive back from overseas unexpectantly.
These are all typical random things a room full of strangers may have asked me. The things i feel bad about or ashamed about i can still talk about out loud and feel good though.....
I booked myself into 'defensive driving' courses and got tuition...i have told the girlfriend that i simply find her behaviour when drunk sometimes appauling, that i love her...but she is on her second chance..there will not be a third, because i deserve better...and she really could have so much better if she takes time to deal with her shit that gets her down and insecure. I have learnt no amount of secret wish fullfillment will over rule feelings of guilt with me...infidelity is simply not in my nature,..i would rather be a swinger and open about it...then have the feelings of betrayal i had the two times. I have also never had a problem with my hard on since...unless of course very drunk and laying nude in a pool of my vomit on a strange and unknown bathroom floor,..but i feel i can be excused for that. And I am currently looking for a job.
The only things i would feel shamed about are things that i feel are kinda embarassing or just plain wrong that iam currently doing nothing about.
I hope you get this the point of this blog. It is why the only thing that ties all humans is a little thing called the human conditon..and anytime one can tell others some of the rules of thumb..well, isn't the human condition just a little easier to understand and deal with.
If you wanna oprah on it now...go forth and tell someone a rule of thumb.
Today children wer are going to discuss the nature of conjoint emotions. Did someone never tell you this?that emotions are actually conjoint...they never told me either,...it has taken me 30 years to learn this. The longest i have ever taken to learn a lesson. (apart from not peeing on the toiet seat...some tuimes after a great night out,..afew drinks..a little stumbly...It happens only rarely, and i do clean up.)
Many People think that the spectrum of emotion has love on one side, and hate on the other. This is not true. I believe that on one side is happiness and on the other is saddness. You should write this down.
happiness-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------saddness.
At the center of this spectrum is indifference.
happiness----------------------------------------indiffernece-------------------------------------------------------saddness.
To the very left of center is love. To the right of center is hate.
happiness................................................love,indifference,hate...............................................................saddness
Indifference being the center means that it is equal to zero. It is what is refered to as the origin. That is why when people are indifferent, they are always indifferent in a mildly amused away,or a mildly agigitate way. If a person was trully indifferent, they would be inanimate.
If you think of emotion in this way it makes sense. That is why two people who really love each other in the beginning, can be so vicious to each other in the end. Love is only seperated from hate by a strip of indifference that is as wide as one of my dick hairs. Be careful with who you love, just a tad of indifference and they could be the one you hate...love/hate are virtually neighbours. By proxy perhaps look carefully at what you hate...you may find it actually something not worth hating ,lest one day you now love it. I once said at 8 years old i hate avocado's...my how the story has changed now...a decade of indiffence to them, then one day in a sandwhich i inquired to the near magical quality that it contained...it was the avo...it just needed the salt and lemon and i was there.
Also major emotions always walk hand in hand with more major emotions. They never are on their own. For instance envy walks with desire. i believe,but am not totally certain that jealously walks with lust....hope walks with uncertainity and fear walks with ignorance....and the biggy that everyone always wants to know...love walks with insecurity....and to round it out....bliss funnily enough also walks with ignorance when fear is not round.
What have we learnt here...ignorance is the promiscious emotion....so when ever you do get those blissfull moments, enjoy them...revel in them..but be mindful is you revel to long, that ignorance is not far behind. Take time to smell the roses,..but remeber just the same as the world doesn't stop turning when your packing a sad and having a sulk, it also doesn't stop if you choose to smell the roses.
What we have also learnt is that major 'I feel' emotions are also connected to minor "cognective thought' emotions. We feel love,fear,jealously,envy,bliss..but we cognectively think deire,lust,insecurity..these are thoughts that almost have a voice...the 'ifeel' emotions are just senses of bodily feeling...almost like a warmth..or a chill..an experience...they have no voice, so to speak.
Ever notice how the partners you have had that you have loved the most and said they love you the most are also the sameones that probably feared losing you to infidelity..or some other circumstance...that when you feared something and just kept silent and try not to acknowledge it and it built and built and that you know hoped it would just go away...and that hope inturns fuels uncertainity that it will...and it builts again....until finally one day it all spills out, and once you talk about it and state it out loud, that you find you actually had nothing to be afraid of in the first place...that your fear brought ignornace, which causes a blockage that hope now gets jammed up in it...and where ever hope is..so is uncertainity...And if the origina lfear was about someone you love..notice how you insecure about them now...notice how also love is envolved now...notice also how fear brought ignorance....you've got one foot in indifference already.....next thing you know you are now darth vader shooting ewoks.
However children, if you are reading this...that means we are all friends,..i do also bring some advice to help remedy the situations that can sometimes happen with emotions walking hand in hand. When living life...ask yourself this question..if i was to speak about any part of my life right now in an open room full of strangers,...would i feel ashamed in anyway? and if so...address the things that you feel ashamed about..am i living openly and honestly?...and do i have things about myself that i should change? you will know what these things are if you were to speak to a room full of strangers about every aspect of your life.
example:
I am crrently at a fantastic job that was once great for me to have, but its now time for me to move on, and i haven't out of inertia.
I love the girl I am with...and i believe she cares for me too...but she treats me like shit sometimes...the worst i have ever been treated...i know she really should have blown her chances with me by now,..i simply believe i deserve better..i should let my head do the thinking...but my heart is instead with her.
I love my friends,but am pretty certain i don't see them as much as i should.
If i had to drive you to the hospital to save your life...you would die on the way there..i am the worlds worst driver..to the point i don't drive..so i can live.
I noticed awhile ago one day when drying myself i saw a part of my scalp...next time i was hair dressers i ask if i was going bald...she said yes. I said shit..i will be the first in my family...she gave me special shampoo's and conditioners..i used them..they seem to work. My folicals seem to get calcium deposits that make the hair break off as soon as it grows. Ihave to use the outrageously over priced product for the rest of my life if i don't want to lose..i will simply play what they charge.
I have never been unfaithful. I have only assisted two people in being unfaithful to their partners. It made me feel terrible, tot he point with one of them i just couldn't keep my hard on...kept thinking the boyfriend would arrive back from overseas unexpectantly.
These are all typical random things a room full of strangers may have asked me. The things i feel bad about or ashamed about i can still talk about out loud and feel good though.....
I booked myself into 'defensive driving' courses and got tuition...i have told the girlfriend that i simply find her behaviour when drunk sometimes appauling, that i love her...but she is on her second chance..there will not be a third, because i deserve better...and she really could have so much better if she takes time to deal with her shit that gets her down and insecure. I have learnt no amount of secret wish fullfillment will over rule feelings of guilt with me...infidelity is simply not in my nature,..i would rather be a swinger and open about it...then have the feelings of betrayal i had the two times. I have also never had a problem with my hard on since...unless of course very drunk and laying nude in a pool of my vomit on a strange and unknown bathroom floor,..but i feel i can be excused for that. And I am currently looking for a job.
The only things i would feel shamed about are things that i feel are kinda embarassing or just plain wrong that iam currently doing nothing about.
I hope you get this the point of this blog. It is why the only thing that ties all humans is a little thing called the human conditon..and anytime one can tell others some of the rules of thumb..well, isn't the human condition just a little easier to understand and deal with.
If you wanna oprah on it now...go forth and tell someone a rule of thumb.